Anonymous
Post 11/07/2019 14:30     Subject: Pet Names
he's cheating on you
Anonymous
Post 11/07/2019 14:28     Subject: Pet Names
Anonymous wrote:Lol. Hey this guy is perfect but maybe too perfect. Is that a red flag?

Hey, my date opened a door for me and held it, should I dump him?

This is what happens when they close all the mental hospitals.


He called me beautiful after 3 dates, asked for a Friday date, I was hesitant and asked for a Saturday date. That is pushy to me.
Anonymous
Post 11/07/2019 14:23     Subject: Pet Names
Lol. Hey this guy is perfect but maybe too perfect. Is that a red flag?

Hey, my date opened a door for me and held it, should I dump him?

This is what happens when they close all the mental hospitals.
Anonymous
Post 11/07/2019 14:17     Subject: Pet Names
OP is going to overplay her hand and next month she is going to see him out with someone younger and hotter and come here to post about how she messed up.
Anonymous
Post 11/07/2019 14:16     Subject: Re:Pet Names
Anonymous wrote:He asked me out Friday night, I said I might be busy I'd let him know. He said Saturday night would work too. Is that too eager?


Stop manufacturing reasons and just move on if you don't want to date him. He's not playing games but you are trying to get guys to play up to the stereotype of wait 3 days to call, pretend like you aren't interested so they'll need you, etc...

He's not playing games. You are. Either dump him or don't but stop looking for crap that isn't there and stop posting about things that are not problems.
Anonymous
Post 11/07/2019 14:12     Subject: Pet Names
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Those "good morning beautiful" texts are mass texts that he copies and pastes. Don't get too excited.


Who hurt you? Get help.


You think it's normal?


Yep. It's a compliment, not a pet name. It's designed to make her feel good and there is nothing wrong with that. If you are finding fault with the comment, you are trying too hard to see something.
Anonymous
Post 11/07/2019 07:40     Subject: Pet Names
I think calling somebody "beautiful" or "handsome" is really just a way to get into the other person's pants.

Sweetie, Honey, Bubsy, those are pet names.
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2019 20:19     Subject: Re:Pet Names
Anonymous wrote:He asked me out Friday night, I said I might be busy I'd let him know. He said Saturday night would work too. Is that too eager?


Too desperate
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2019 19:01     Subject: Re:Pet Names
He asked me out Friday night, I said I might be busy I'd let him know. He said Saturday night would work too. Is that too eager?
Anonymous
Post 11/05/2019 20:06     Subject: Pet Names
I never thought I was an overly affectionate person - woman here - but I call my love my “sweetheart”, and have never called anyone that before.
Anonymous
Post 11/05/2019 19:42     Subject: Pet Names
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Those "good morning beautiful" texts are mass texts that he copies and pastes. Don't get too excited.


I honestly think he's too akward too. He also brought up on the phone he wants to talk about being exclusive.


Are you afraid of commitment? He's been on a couple dates. He likes you and is attracted to you. Apparently you were attracted to him until he let you know he was attracted to you. Is this grade school? In 6 months, OP will be on here starting a thread about how miserable online dating is while this guy will be progressing thru a normal dating relationship with a normal woman.

Btw, if someone mentioned exclusivity to me before I was ready, I wouldn't hold it against them. I would simply tell them I wasn't ready yet, blaming recent history and moving too fast in the past but reassuring them that I like them too and I could see it going there.


NP here. It's too soon


What is the big deal.. you are drama
Anonymous
Post 11/05/2019 16:32     Subject: Pet Names
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Those "good morning beautiful" texts are mass texts that he copies and pastes. Don't get too excited.


I honestly think he's too akward too. He also brought up on the phone he wants to talk about being exclusive.


Are you afraid of commitment? He's been on a couple dates. He likes you and is attracted to you. Apparently you were attracted to him until he let you know he was attracted to you. Is this grade school? In 6 months, OP will be on here starting a thread about how miserable online dating is while this guy will be progressing thru a normal dating relationship with a normal woman.

Btw, if someone mentioned exclusivity to me before I was ready, I wouldn't hold it against them. I would simply tell them I wasn't ready yet, blaming recent history and moving too fast in the past but reassuring them that I like them too and I could see it going there.


NP here. It's too soon
Anonymous
Post 11/05/2019 15:47     Subject: Pet Names
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Those "good morning beautiful" texts are mass texts that he copies and pastes. Don't get too excited.


Who hurt you? Get help.


You think it's normal?
Anonymous
Post 11/05/2019 15:46     Subject: Re:Pet Names
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:As a guy if a woman called me by a pet name after four dates my radar would go off. So yes, it’s way too early.


He called me beautiful.


That's not a pet name. A pet name is something like honey, sweetie blah blah
Anonymous
Post 11/05/2019 14:45     Subject: Pet Names
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Those "good morning beautiful" texts are mass texts that he copies and pastes. Don't get too excited.


I honestly think he's too akward too. He also brought up on the phone he wants to talk about being exclusive.


Are you afraid of commitment? He's been on a couple dates. He likes you and is attracted to you. Apparently you were attracted to him until he let you know he was attracted to you. Is this grade school? In 6 months, OP will be on here starting a thread about how miserable online dating is while this guy will be progressing thru a normal dating relationship with a normal woman.

Btw, if someone mentioned exclusivity to me before I was ready, I wouldn't hold it against them. I would simply tell them I wasn't ready yet, blaming recent history and moving too fast in the past but reassuring them that I like them too and I could see it going there.