Anonymous
Post 10/03/2019 15:40     Subject: Re:How to be a good wife?
Another poster who has been married for 30 years. Men aren’t that complicated.

1. Be nice to him.
2. Make his favorite foods.
3. Have sex with him.
4. Show him that you value and respect him. You are his biggest cheerleader. Remember that.
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2019 15:22     Subject: How to be a good wife?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a guy and I prefer very traditional gender roles. Luckily Dw does also.

I provide via excellent job so she can raise our kids and we have enough $ for help. My expectations is she keeps in shape, well groomed, wears quality and attractive clothes, and yes we have an active sex life, which includes lots of what we both want. doesn't mean bj or sex every day but we both try to be available for each other.


This, exactly this


Sounds very "Stepford" and shallow.
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2019 14:48     Subject: How to be a good wife?
Anonymous wrote:I am a guy and I prefer very traditional gender roles. Luckily Dw does also.

I provide via excellent job so she can raise our kids and we have enough $ for help. My expectations is she keeps in shape, well groomed, wears quality and attractive clothes, and yes we have an active sex life, which includes lots of what we both want. doesn't mean bj or sex every day but we both try to be available for each other.


This, exactly this
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2019 13:30     Subject: Re:How to be a good wife?
Put his needs ahead of yours and great sex. If he’s smart he will put your needs ahead of his and great sex. If you both do that you will be very happy.
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2019 13:08     Subject: Re:How to be a good wife?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The amount of time blow job is mentioned is hilarious. I'm just glad i'm with someone who doesn't care for them.


"Someone who doesn't care for them" - a lesbian marriage? Every man loves BJs, and the more the better. Different poster here too. They are really the glue to the relationship. Without them, things can get snippy and short tempered real fast.


Male here, 69 over traditional BJ, all day, every day.


you are 69 and still going? good for you man!
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2019 13:04     Subject: How to be a good wife?
I am a guy and I prefer very traditional gender roles. Luckily Dw does also.

I provide via excellent job so she can raise our kids and we have enough $ for help. My expectations is she keeps in shape, well groomed, wears quality and attractive clothes, and yes we have an active sex life, which includes lots of what we both want. doesn't mean bj or sex every day but we both try to be available for each other.
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2019 12:02     Subject: Re:How to be a good wife?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The amount of time blow job is mentioned is hilarious. I'm just glad i'm with someone who doesn't care for them.


"Someone who doesn't care for them" - a lesbian marriage? Every man loves BJs, and the more the better. Different poster here too. They are really the glue to the relationship. Without them, things can get snippy and short tempered real fast.


Male here, 69 over traditional BJ, all day, every day.
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2019 11:45     Subject: Re:How to be a good wife?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The amount of time blow job is mentioned is hilarious. I'm just glad i'm with someone who doesn't care for them.


"Someone who doesn't care for them" - a lesbian marriage? Every man loves BJs, and the more the better. Different poster here too. They are really the glue to the relationship. Without them, things can get snippy and short tempered real fast.
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2019 10:52     Subject: How to be a good wife?
As surprising as it is that you didn't discuss this before getting married, I still think your husband is the best person to tell you what he expects of a wife. There is no one definition.

I'd wager he's okay with your perceived shortcomings or he wouldn't have married you, but it's still worth a conversation.
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2019 10:52     Subject: Re:How to be a good wife?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The amount of time blow job is mentioned is hilarious. I'm just glad i'm with someone who doesn't care for them.


Same poster who talks about BJ on every post


Yea good try but no. I am a female and trust me i'm not posting about blow jobs
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2019 10:19     Subject: How to be a good wife?
Anonymous wrote:Full stomach
Empty balls

We're not that complicated


Wife here and I agree with this. If my husband is getting laid regularly and no one's giving him a hard time about anything, he's very happy. You would think for a guy with his level of intelligence it would be more complicated than that but it's really not.
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2019 09:57     Subject: Re:How to be a good wife?
Anonymous wrote:The amount of time blow job is mentioned is hilarious. I'm just glad i'm with someone who doesn't care for them.


Same poster who talks about BJ on every post
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2019 09:56     Subject: Re:How to be a good wife?
The amount of time blow job is mentioned is hilarious. I'm just glad i'm with someone who doesn't care for them.
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2019 09:51     Subject: How to be a good wife?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op, take out your choice of the word, "wife" and instead insert "spouse".

Your word choice is revealing a less than modern mindset. That is only going to harm your journey, your future together.


Since when is “wife” not synonymous with “spouse”?


A perfect example of looking for problem when there's no problem to be found
Anonymous
Post 10/03/2019 09:46     Subject: Re:How to be a good wife?
Teamwork. You are his biggest cheerleader. And while another pp cudely wrote - intimacy and basic comforts of home.