Anonymous
Post 10/01/2019 08:54     Subject: What would you say to an old AP/lover?
I wish you’d conquer your demons and not overdose in LA.

Too late to say now. RIP.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2019 20:13     Subject: What would you say to an old AP/lover?
Anonymous wrote:I wish you expressed how much I meant to you when we were together.


+1
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2019 14:00     Subject: What would you say to an old AP/lover?
Anonymous wrote:I cheated on my spouse with you and now still, years later, I am nurturing adolescent feelings about you that, if I said them out loud, would sound like the lyrics to an embarrassing 80s ballad. Maybe I should grow the F up and either commit to my marriage or leave it, but stop imagining that having an actual relationship with you was going to be some kind of magical lovey wonderland.



True, but when you're in crazy affair fog reality goes out the window. For the people that didn't get caught it could have really destroyed their lives. Sigh of relief I'm sure.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2019 13:58     Subject: What would you say to an old AP/lover?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I will enforce the restraining order.

well that says it all..


I know two where it almost came to that. They didn't want the courts involved, but one woman (I knew) actually broke into their house when they went on vacation. Unbeknownst to her husband she picked their new home directly behind her AP's home. A long story but his wife knew all along, got pregnant and husband broke up with crazy AP. After the break in, crazy AP's husband divorced her. The other DW divorced her cheating husband once the baby was a year old. Seems she had her own payback plan. No they didn't get together.
With the other couple the AP did the phone calls and alerted the DW because she was tired of being second fiddle. She finally moved on after she realized DH and DW weren't going to divorce.

It's nice to believe another cheater will keep your secret, but I suppose it's kind of like two criminals. Agreements only mean so much..lol
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2019 13:48     Subject: Re:What would you say to an old AP/lover?
Anonymous wrote:Gee - time hasn’t been your friend.


LOL

I would imagine sleeping around the block would age one!
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2019 12:24     Subject: What would you say to an old AP/lover?
Thank you, I have absolutely no regrets. Hope you feel the same.

(I actually did say the first part to him).
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2019 12:11     Subject: What would you say to an old AP/lover?
Anonymous wrote:I will enforce the restraining order.

well that says it all..
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2019 11:22     Subject: What would you say to an old AP/lover?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I cheated on my spouse with you and now still, years later, I am nurturing adolescent feelings about you that, if I said them out loud, would sound like the lyrics to an embarrassing 80s ballad. Maybe I should grow the F up and either commit to my marriage or leave it, but stop imagining that having an actual relationship with you was going to be some kind of magical lovey wonderland.



+1



2 cheated on women and counting!


Are these physical or emotional affairs?
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2019 11:20     Subject: What would you say to an old AP/lover?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I cheated on my spouse with you and now still, years later, I am nurturing adolescent feelings about you that, if I said them out loud, would sound like the lyrics to an embarrassing 80s ballad. Maybe I should grow the F up and either commit to my marriage or leave it, but stop imagining that having an actual relationship with you was going to be some kind of magical lovey wonderland.



+1



2 cheated on women and counting!
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2019 09:35     Subject: What would you say to an old AP/lover?
Anonymous wrote:I cheated on my spouse with you and now still, years later, I am nurturing adolescent feelings about you that, if I said them out loud, would sound like the lyrics to an embarrassing 80s ballad. Maybe I should grow the F up and either commit to my marriage or leave it, but stop imagining that having an actual relationship with you was going to be some kind of magical lovey wonderland.



+1

Anonymous
Post 09/30/2019 09:19     Subject: What would you say to an old AP/lover?
How about a quickie for old time sake?
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2019 09:19     Subject: What would you say to an old AP/lover?
You can eat crackers in my bed anytime!
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2019 09:17     Subject: Re:What would you say to an old AP/lover?
Anonymous wrote:Thanks for the great time, and more importantly, taking our secret to the grave!


+1
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2019 08:39     Subject: What would you say to an old AP/lover?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can I feed you your favorite sushi in bed listening to awesome music?

Could we fall asleep trying to find something to watch on TV? But we never found it, we just slept. I always wanted to sleep with you.


None of this sounds fun.


If you were the PP's ex, that would explain things. If you aren't why comment?


Because eating fish in bed while trying to find something decent to watch on t.v. and then giving up and nodding off....sounds really...not sexy.


DP. Not every affair is about sex.


The idea that someone would covertly sneak around (AP!) to do that....well, lol.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2019 07:51     Subject: Re:What would you say to an old AP/lover?
I wish I could have let you know my true feelings about you without holding back.