Anonymous
Post 09/28/2019 19:59     Subject: Re:Where can I get matching mother daughter dresses?
Here you go:

https://www.etsy.com/listing/640599835/blush-pink-mother-daughter-matching-tutu?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_ts1-a-clothing-womens_clothing-dresses&utm_custom1=b6cfbc90-7e18-401d-8bb1-a421704ca79a&utm_content=go_919451255_45414001109_218657456331_pla-298480501427_c__640599835&gclid=CjwKCAjwibzsBRAMEiwA1pHZrqbVJP2q_6FzeK3gbOEIjVPmmBNSrA-4lpkGcfhaLj_nx5ADC3g5GxoCF1kQAvD_BwE
Anonymous
Post 09/28/2019 19:52     Subject: Re:Where can I get matching mother daughter dresses?
Went to a wedding once where the flower girl was dressed as a miniature of the bride. Dress, tiara, and veil. Some people thought it was cute. I wouldn't choose it.
Anonymous
Post 09/28/2019 19:45     Subject: Re:Where can I get matching mother daughter dresses?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Based on the way some of the posters here are reacting, it's pretty clear what kinds of brides you were for your own weddings.

OP, no specific store recs, but you do you. No one here knows you, your child, or your family dynamic. I hope you find what you are looking for and that you have a wonderful time at the wedding.

Seriously people.


+1 to all of this. OP, if you ever post again, don't mention "wedding" because it seems to bring out all the cray cray bridezillas.


Not a bridezilla here--was married by a Justice of the Peace with just three people in attendance. But, I've been to lots of weddings and if I saw a flower girl and her mother walking down the aisle in matching dresses, I'd find it a little peculiar--if the mom were a bridesmaid, it would be okay, I guess. But, I don't like little girls dressed as adults--or adults dressed as little girls. Tacky.

Anonymous
Post 09/28/2019 18:15     Subject: Re:Where can I get matching mother daughter dresses?
Anonymous wrote:Based on the way some of the posters here are reacting, it's pretty clear what kinds of brides you were for your own weddings.

OP, no specific store recs, but you do you. No one here knows you, your child, or your family dynamic. I hope you find what you are looking for and that you have a wonderful time at the wedding.

Seriously people.


+1 to all of this. OP, if you ever post again, don't mention "wedding" because it seems to bring out all the cray cray bridezillas.
Anonymous
Post 09/28/2019 17:49     Subject: Where can I get matching mother daughter dresses?
^^meant to reply to the poster above this one!
Anonymous
Post 09/28/2019 17:48     Subject: Re:Where can I get matching mother daughter dresses?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Based on the way some of the posters here are reacting, it's pretty clear what kinds of brides you were for your own weddings.

OP, no specific store recs, but you do you. No one here knows you, your child, or your family dynamic. I hope you find what you are looking for and that you have a wonderful time at the wedding.

Seriously people.


Just maybe people are well meaning and giving her fodder for thought.


Wrong. I was the first one to call OP attention seeking. I didn’t even have a bridal party, didn’t have/want a shower, and my bachelorette was a backyard BBQ. Still too bridezilla for you?
Anonymous
Post 09/28/2019 17:47     Subject: Re:Where can I get matching mother daughter dresses?
Anonymous wrote:Based on the way some of the posters here are reacting, it's pretty clear what kinds of brides you were for your own weddings.

OP, no specific store recs, but you do you. No one here knows you, your child, or your family dynamic. I hope you find what you are looking for and that you have a wonderful time at the wedding.

Seriously people.


Just maybe people are well meaning and giving her fodder for thought.
Anonymous
Post 09/28/2019 16:52     Subject: Re:Where can I get matching mother daughter dresses?
Based on the way some of the posters here are reacting, it's pretty clear what kinds of brides you were for your own weddings.

OP, no specific store recs, but you do you. No one here knows you, your child, or your family dynamic. I hope you find what you are looking for and that you have a wonderful time at the wedding.

Seriously people.
Anonymous
Post 09/28/2019 16:38     Subject: Where can I get matching mother daughter dresses?
Anonymous wrote:This is hilarious and also somewhat sad. I am the OP and you guys have made a million assumptions about me, the bride, the wedding, whether or not I’m in the party, and whether or not it is appropriate or not for me to match my daughter and if that is upstaging the bride or not when you literally know nothing. Zero. About the situation. Or our family. Or me. Or the bride. Thanks to all who were helpful and provided suggestions, the rest of you can go stew in your own bitter juices of judgement and misery.


You do know that you went from "going to a wedding" to having your three year old be a flower girl that you "have to" walk down the aisle. I've been to weddings where this might have been necessary.

If you were in the wedding party, this would be easier. But, if you are not, do you really think the bride wants an "adult flower girl?" That's kind of what it sounds like if you wear the same outfit as the flower girl.

But, you do you.
Anonymous
Post 09/28/2019 14:25     Subject: Where can I get matching mother daughter dresses?
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Anonymous wrote:I would not try to match. Too much attention seeking at an event that is not about you and your daughter.


That wasn’t my question but thanks for the unnecessary judgement when you have no idea the context of the event.


You’re welcome. Enjoy looking foolish.


Way to ruin the thread with your rudeness, pp.


Literally don’t care. It sounds from the original post like the bride hasn’t even signed off on this. OP is a typical entitled mom who thinks the world revolves around her child. “My daughter wants us to match.” That doesn’t matter; what matters is what the bride wants. It’s not about OP, but she wants it to be.


God forbid someone else look cute on some Bridezilla's day. FFS. It's worth a 30 second glance. Nobody pays that much attention to wedding guests.


There’s no bridezilla issue. It’s just good etiquette and being a good friend/guest to not dress in a way—or in some matchy matchy schtick—that upstages the bride, wedding party (which OP is not a part of) or seeks attention in some other way. The bride seemingly has not demanded anything at all so there is no bridezilla implication, but OP seems tone deaf to what would be good etiquette. It’s not about you, OP. It’s not even about your daughter.


I love the way people who do not know basic etiquette make up all kinds of manners rules about weddings that they have pulled out of the air.

Clearly a Bridezilla thing.
Anonymous
Post 09/28/2019 14:01     Subject: Where can I get matching mother daughter dresses?
Anonymous wrote:This is hilarious and also somewhat sad. I am the OP and you guys have made a million assumptions about me, the bride, the wedding, whether or not I’m in the party, and whether or not it is appropriate or not for me to match my daughter and if that is upstaging the bride or not when you literally know nothing. Zero. About the situation. Or our family. Or me. Or the bride. Thanks to all who were helpful and provided suggestions, the rest of you can go stew in your own bitter juices of judgement and misery.


LOL kbye
Anonymous
Post 09/28/2019 13:58     Subject: Where can I get matching mother daughter dresses?
This is hilarious and also somewhat sad. I am the OP and you guys have made a million assumptions about me, the bride, the wedding, whether or not I’m in the party, and whether or not it is appropriate or not for me to match my daughter and if that is upstaging the bride or not when you literally know nothing. Zero. About the situation. Or our family. Or me. Or the bride. Thanks to all who were helpful and provided suggestions, the rest of you can go stew in your own bitter juices of judgement and misery.
Anonymous
Post 09/28/2019 12:54     Subject: Where can I get matching mother daughter dresses?
Anonymous wrote:My daughter and I match in Ulla Johnson. The quality and fit is unbelievable and the dress will last two years and then transition to a top longer than that.


Wow! People spend that kind of money on clothes?! I hope you donate generously to charity. I saw a pair of pants for $395.
Anonymous
Post 09/28/2019 12:36     Subject: Where can I get matching mother daughter dresses?
Anonymous wrote:OP asked a simple question. What is the need for this inquisition?


Because she wants to do it at a wedding. Seeking attention on herself at someone else’s day.
Anonymous
Post 09/28/2019 11:00     Subject: Where can I get matching mother daughter dresses?
OP asked a simple question. What is the need for this inquisition?