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Anonymous wrote:Revenge is a dish best served cold. Wait until you find someone you lust after and keep it to yourself. Then you can smile all day long and he will be none the wiser.

OP here. I agree with this. I am playing the long game. He thinks I am interested in reconciling. We have our nice talks and talk about the future going forward. He is being super nice and caring. But I know it is all BS. He is a selfish entitled man child and no longer the person I fell in love with. He is scared to death to look bad in front of his kids, friends, and colleagues and losing a big chunk of money. It is going to be fun exposing him for the fraud that he is.

Here’s the thing. It can be fun and cathartic to think about “exposing” him to everyone, but I’d advise you to think long and hard about the actual implications of that. First of all none of his coworkers will care, unless he had an affair with someone he supervises, and even then - would you want to risk him losing his job and your kids’ financial security? Friends don’t want to know the details of your marriage and they might wind up judging YOU. You really open yourself up to criticism or the sad truth that no one really cares as much as you do. Telling your kids is a stupid idea for obvious reasons.

It just isn’t going to be the big blowup you imagine where you look like the good one.

Totally agree with this. One of my business partners ex wife sent a company wide email about his cheating and the universal consensus was she looked crazy and it created a bit of empathy for him

This and the previous post are definitely written by men. You already think women are crazy to justify the sh*tty way you treat women. After I take at least half of what we have I and the kids will be able to live comfortably for the rest of our lives. If he losses the ability to earn more so be it. That will affect him and his ego more than us. I think it is important the kids understand what a fraud their father is. They are old enough to understand.

He isn’t a fraud. He lost interest in you. Go ahead and make your kids miserable in the interest of justice!

I am fine with the fact that he lost interest in me. Instead of being a little boy he could have done the family the decency of owning that fact that he was not interested in me and we could have worked things out amicably. But since he could not find his big boy pants he now has to face the consequences. My kids will understand this. They are old enough.

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Anonymous wrote:Revenge is a dish best served cold. Wait until you find someone you lust after and keep it to yourself. Then you can smile all day long and he will be none the wiser.

OP here. I agree with this. I am playing the long game. He thinks I am interested in reconciling. We have our nice talks and talk about the future going forward. He is being super nice and caring. But I know it is all BS. He is a selfish entitled man child and no longer the person I fell in love with. He is scared to death to look bad in front of his kids, friends, and colleagues and losing a big chunk of money. It is going to be fun exposing him for the fraud that he is.

Here’s the thing. It can be fun and cathartic to think about “exposing” him to everyone, but I’d advise you to think long and hard about the actual implications of that. First of all none of his coworkers will care, unless he had an affair with someone he supervises, and even then - would you want to risk him losing his job and your kids’ financial security? Friends don’t want to know the details of your marriage and they might wind up judging YOU. You really open yourself up to criticism or the sad truth that no one really cares as much as you do. Telling your kids is a stupid idea for obvious reasons.

It just isn’t going to be the big blowup you imagine where you look like the good one.

Totally agree with this. One of my business partners ex wife sent a company wide email about his cheating and the universal consensus was she looked crazy and it created a bit of empathy for him

This and the previous post are definitely written by men. You already think women are crazy to justify the sh*tty way you treat women. After I take at least half of what we have I and the kids will be able to live comfortably for the rest of our lives. If he losses the ability to earn more so be it. That will affect him and his ego more than us. I think it is important the kids understand what a fraud their father is. They are old enough to understand.

He isn’t a fraud. He lost interest in you. Go ahead and make your kids miserable in the interest of justice!

I am fine with the fact that he lost interest in me. Instead of being a little boy he could have done the family the decency of owning that fact that he was not interested in me and we could have worked things out amicably. But since he could not find his big boy pants he now has to face the consequences. My kids will understand this. They are old enough.

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Anonymous wrote:Revenge is a dish best served cold. Wait until you find someone you lust after and keep it to yourself. Then you can smile all day long and he will be none the wiser.

OP here. I agree with this. I am playing the long game. He thinks I am interested in reconciling. We have our nice talks and talk about the future going forward. He is being super nice and caring. But I know it is all BS. He is a selfish entitled man child and no longer the person I fell in love with. He is scared to death to look bad in front of his kids, friends, and colleagues and losing a big chunk of money. It is going to be fun exposing him for the fraud that he is.

Here’s the thing. It can be fun and cathartic to think about “exposing” him to everyone, but I’d advise you to think long and hard about the actual implications of that. First of all none of his coworkers will care, unless he had an affair with someone he supervises, and even then - would you want to risk him losing his job and your kids’ financial security? Friends don’t want to know the details of your marriage and they might wind up judging YOU. You really open yourself up to criticism or the sad truth that no one really cares as much as you do. Telling your kids is a stupid idea for obvious reasons.

It just isn’t going to be the big blowup you imagine where you look like the good one.

Totally agree with this. One of my business partners ex wife sent a company wide email about his cheating and the universal consensus was she looked crazy and it created a bit of empathy for him

This and the previous post are definitely written by men. You already think women are crazy to justify the sh*tty way you treat women. After I take at least half of what we have I and the kids will be able to live comfortably for the rest of our lives. If he losses the ability to earn more so be it. That will affect him and his ego more than us. I think it is important the kids understand what a fraud their father is. They are old enough to understand.

He isn’t a fraud. He lost interest in you. Go ahead and make your kids miserable in the interest of justice!

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Anonymous wrote:Revenge is a dish best served cold. Wait until you find someone you lust after and keep it to yourself. Then you can smile all day long and he will be none the wiser.

OP here. I agree with this. I am playing the long game. He thinks I am interested in reconciling. We have our nice talks and talk about the future going forward. He is being super nice and caring. But I know it is all BS. He is a selfish entitled man child and no longer the person I fell in love with. He is scared to death to look bad in front of his kids, friends, and colleagues and losing a big chunk of money. It is going to be fun exposing him for the fraud that he is.

Here’s the thing. It can be fun and cathartic to think about “exposing” him to everyone, but I’d advise you to think long and hard about the actual implications of that. First of all none of his coworkers will care, unless he had an affair with someone he supervises, and even then - would you want to risk him losing his job and your kids’ financial security? Friends don’t want to know the details of your marriage and they might wind up judging YOU. You really open yourself up to criticism or the sad truth that no one really cares as much as you do. Telling your kids is a stupid idea for obvious reasons.

It just isn’t going to be the big blowup you imagine where you look like the good one.

Totally agree with this. One of my business partners ex wife sent a company wide email about his cheating and the universal consensus was she looked crazy and it created a bit of empathy for him

This and the previous post are definitely written by men. You already think women are crazy to justify the sh*tty way you treat women. After I take at least half of what we have I and the kids will be able to live comfortably for the rest of our lives. If he losses the ability to earn more so be it. That will affect him and his ego more than us. I think it is important the kids understand what a fraud their father is. They are old enough to understand.

Anonymous wrote:Seriously? If you are going to have a revenge affair do it with some young guy with six pack abs and a big you know what. Why waste it on a guy who isn’t satisfying his wife?

As I said before I am playing the long game. Still more digging to do. Need to get my affairs in order (pun intended) and my Ahole husband comfortable. And then when he least expects it, I will serve him with divorce papers.

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Anonymous wrote:Bang his most slutty friend not OWs H... make it a 3-some.

kinda +1 definitely more appealing to do this outside of your/DH's home zone. be it a simple M-F affair or a 3-some (MFM), you get to play out whatever kink/fantasy you want an on your terms. maybe video tape/pics of the romp for you to keep and to use as an Ace card in the future. I don't know, maybe I'm just super vindictive.

Nope. You need to f&ck his best friend or his brother.

Why can’t I do the AP spouse and the best friend. It’s time for me to have fun.

Get a divorce and have fun.

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Anonymous wrote:Bang his most slutty friend not OWs H... make it a 3-some.

kinda +1 definitely more appealing to do this outside of your/DH's home zone. be it a simple M-F affair or a 3-some (MFM), you get to play out whatever kink/fantasy you want an on your terms. maybe video tape/pics of the romp for you to keep and to use as an Ace card in the future. I don't know, maybe I'm just super vindictive.

Nope. You need to f&ck his best friend or his brother.

Why can’t I do the AP spouse and the best friend. It’s time for me to have fun.

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Anonymous wrote:Bang his most slutty friend not OWs H... make it a 3-some.

kinda +1 definitely more appealing to do this outside of your/DH's home zone. be it a simple M-F affair or a 3-some (MFM), you get to play out whatever kink/fantasy you want an on your terms. maybe video tape/pics of the romp for you to keep and to use as an Ace card in the future. I don't know, maybe I'm just super vindictive.

Nope. You need to f&ck his best friend or his brother.

Why can’t I do the AP spouse and the best friend. It’s time for me to have fun.

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Anonymous wrote:Revenge is a dish best served cold. Wait until you find someone you lust after and keep it to yourself. Then you can smile all day long and he will be none the wiser.

OP here. I agree with this. I am playing the long game. He thinks I am interested in reconciling. We have our nice talks and talk about the future going forward. He is being super nice and caring. But I know it is all BS. He is a selfish entitled man child and no longer the person I fell in love with. He is scared to death to look bad in front of his kids, friends, and colleagues and losing a big chunk of money. It is going to be fun exposing him for the fraud that he is.

Here’s the thing. It can be fun and cathartic to think about “exposing” him to everyone, but I’d advise you to think long and hard about the actual implications of that. First of all none of his coworkers will care, unless he had an affair with someone he supervises, and even then - would you want to risk him losing his job and your kids’ financial security? Friends don’t want to know the details of your marriage and they might wind up judging YOU. You really open yourself up to criticism or the sad truth that no one really cares as much as you do. Telling your kids is a stupid idea for obvious reasons.

It just isn’t going to be the big blowup you imagine where you look like the good one.

Totally agree with this. One of my business partners ex wife sent a company wide email about his cheating and the universal consensus was she looked crazy and it created a bit of empathy for him

This and the previous post are definitely written by men. You already think women are crazy to justify the sh*tty way you treat women. After I take at least half of what we have I and the kids will be able to live comfortably for the rest of our lives. If he losses the ability to earn more so be it. That will affect him and his ego more than us. I think it is important the kids understand what a fraud their father is. They are old enough to understand.

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Anonymous wrote:Bang his most slutty friend not OWs H... make it a 3-some.

kinda +1 definitely more appealing to do this outside of your/DH's home zone. be it a simple M-F affair or a 3-some (MFM), you get to play out whatever kink/fantasy you want an on your terms. maybe video tape/pics of the romp for you to keep and to use as an Ace card in the future. I don't know, maybe I'm just super vindictive.

Nope. You need to f&ck his best friend or his brother.