43 I guess? I'm currently pregnant with number 1 at 41. Later than I'd hoped, but infertility.

We have one genetically-normal embryo left and a part of me says go for #2 at 43 and just let fate decide with that one embryo. Another part of me hesitates based on age.

But no matter what, we're done with fertility treatments.

I had my kids at 30 and 33. I would never ever have children in my 40s. So, I guess 39 is my cutoff!

Probably 37. I’m 34 now and have two kids. I don’t think a third is in the cards for us at all, but a tiny piece of me wants a third. If it’s going to happen, it will happen by 37.

I had my second baby at 36 and it was a very easy, fit pregnancy. I considered the option of having another at 38 but decided against it. So, I guess my personal cutoff for myself would be 38.

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Anonymous wrote:My mental cutoff was 45 but no 2 ended up coming at 46. For me the issue is not the pregnancy but later on looking at retirement while paying for college. And living long enough to get them launched. I was so focused on getting pregnant that I really neglected to think long range. But Hoda Kotb just adopted an infant at 55 so I’m a spring chicken.

Two "ended up" coming? So that's IVF--no exactly a matter of chance....I can't imagine how utterly self-consumed you would have to be to adopt an infant at 55.

I'm not the pp but it's clear she said number 2. And even if she had Ivf and ended up with two at 46 what is it to you?

I don’t have a specific age (I’m 33 now) but I know I won’t do IVF, and if I have another miscarriage I’d probably stop.

I have been leaning towards adoption and I don’t have a cut off for that.

Anonymous wrote:My mental cutoff was 45 but no 2 ended up coming at 46. For me the issue is not the pregnancy but later on looking at retirement while paying for college. And living long enough to get them launched. I was so focused on getting pregnant that I really neglected to think long range. But Hoda Kotb just adopted an infant at 55 so I’m a spring chicken.

Two "ended up" coming? So that's IVF--no exactly a matter of chance....I can't imagine how utterly self-consumed you would have to be to adopt an infant at 55.

I don’t really have a specific cut off. I’m 39 & would love another kid, but we will see. I’ve never wanted to “get the baby part over with.” In contrast, it goes by way too fast to me. My mom had a baby in her late 40s.

My mental cutoff was 45 but no 2 ended up coming at 46. For me the issue is not the pregnancy but later on looking at retirement while paying for college. And living long enough to get them launched. I was so focused on getting pregnant that I really neglected to think long range. But Hoda Kotb just adopted an infant at 55 so I’m a spring chicken.

I definitely wanted to be done before 40. Had first two at 33 and 35 and am pregnant with #3 now at 38. Personally I haven't found the AMA pregnancies to be very different from the first one, except for being marginally more uncomfortable this time around. But we'll see if it's harder to bounce back after delivery after #3 arrives.

If I could have planned out my life, I would have wanted to have my kids earlier as I see a lot of advantages to being done by your early-mid 30s. But in my case I didn't get married till 29, then had trouble getting pregnant with DS1. So I'm just glad I was able to have the kids when I did.

43 is my cut off. I got pregnant right away at 35 and had an easy pregnancy. We started trying right away for baby number 2 and we’re still trying but will give up when I turn 43 and just accept having an only child. I turn 43 in a few months.

Wanted to be done at 30, but it ended up being 31. I wouldn’t want to have anymore past 34.

I always said 35. My parents had me at 40/41 and I've always felt that was too old. Had DS at 30.

Anonymous wrote:Before I had kids, I said I would have my first at 40, but would likely not have my 3rd or 4th at 40+. Fate took care of that for us - my DH now has a chronic medical condition that started out as an acute medical crisis. I’m done.

Do you have children?