If looking up hot women in my neighborhood on Facebook was an Olympic sport, I'd be on the podium every time. I often do it in plain sight of my wife too. Thankfully I don't have to live in fear like your husband does.

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Anonymous wrote:It was Bill grabbing pussy in the Oval Office, not your “orange” guy.

Screw any man, Democrat or republican, who acts like this.

JFK and Clinton are the ones we know about.

You sound like you probably came to DC from the Deep South. Women around here don’t think like you.
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Look here’s another one.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It was Bill grabbing pussy in the Oval Office, not your “orange” guy.

Screw any man, Democrat or republican, who acts like this.

JFK and Clinton are the ones we know about.

You sound like you probably came to DC from the Deep South. Women around here don’t think like you.
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Sounds like harmless fun between guys. Im sure it would bug me a little but probably wouldn’t let him know I was snooping.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It was Bill grabbing pussy in the Oval Office, not your “orange” guy.

Screw any man, Democrat or republican, who acts like this.

JFK and Clinton are the ones we know about.

Anonymous wrote:It was Bill grabbing pussy in the Oval Office, not your “orange” guy.

Screw any man, Democrat or republican, who acts like this.

It was Bill grabbing pussy in the Oval Office, not your “orange” guy.

Anonymous wrote:Married woman here. OP, you're the one breaking his trust by spying on him, reading his private messages, and then lying to him by omission that you've done this. So you found out that he and another guy giggle together about the hot girl at the office. That's it. Dear God. I feel so sorry for your husband. You really should reflect on why you don't trust him, and from what you've posted it sounds like it has nothing to do with him. He deserves to be with someone who trusts him and respects him. You don't, and it will corrode your marriage. Go to therapy.

This response is complete BS, and I’m calling it out. The OP’s husband is going behind her back telling a male friend that he finds another woman, to whom he did not commit his life to in front of God and all his and her friends and families, that he thinks she’s hot. This is disgusting, disrespectful behavior and to call it locker room talk/boys will be boys reminds me a lot of the apologists for our pussy-grabbing commander in chief.

I’m sorry you are going through this, OP. None of us can really say whether you were actually snooping or not; only you know the answer to that. Either way, this is not a tit-for-tat situation, and snooping wouldn’t excuse your husbands disrespectful behavior. Good luck to you.

Married woman here. OP, you're the one breaking his trust by spying on him, reading his private messages, and then lying to him by omission that you've done this. So you found out that he and another guy giggle together about the hot girl at the office. That's it. Dear God. I feel so sorry for your husband. You really should reflect on why you don't trust him, and from what you've posted it sounds like it has nothing to do with him. He deserves to be with someone who trusts him and respects him. You don't, and it will corrode your marriage. Go to therapy.

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, I’m a 35 year old mother of 3 married 10 years. If I saw this, I would be jealous and a bit turned on and would try to up my sexy/bedroom game. I wouldn’t say anything to him.

And personally, I am super nosy and look up people (including hot guys) all the time and text my bestie about them. I have zero intention of cheating. I’m married, not dead!

Wow a normal sane person on DCUM, miracles do happen.

This is depressing. He’s a jerk but try to breathe deeply and not let it bring you down or mess up your own emotional health. He is an @$$ but that’s nothing to do with you. He is pathetically obsessing over a random woman with his friend. Maybe your dh is doing most of the talking but that just means he must not be in a good place if he is acting like a loser 14 year old. It is pathetic but not your fault, if you absolutely have to say something maybe suggest he take up a more positive hobby

Dp. No, seriously, dick punch. You punch him in the dick.

Anonymous wrote:No different than him checking her out in person. Men are visual.

A little different because he had to figure out her name to find her on facebook. But not a big deal unless there's something else going on. And with DW going this deep into his phone while he's out of the room, I'm thinking there's something else going on.

Do you think he's cheating, OP? Are you cheating, and you were trying to figure out if he's on to you?

I need glasses.

I read "DH looks like a hot girl on FB" and was intrigued.

No different than him checking her out in person. Men are visual.