Anonymous
Post 07/11/2019 10:16     Subject: I understand why people cheat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife is an ice cold bitch and I am out at a bar without her after our fight

First thing that happened once I entered was that I struck up a conversation with a pretty woman who is just as impressed by my appearance as I am by hers

Not sure I would go through with all the lies and sneakiness that would be required for an ongoing affair, but I absolutely would rather kiss and have sex with this woman than my own wife

I (wisely?) declined to exchange contact info but I'm still thinking about her


Why did you marry this "ice cold bitch?" You should have stayed single so you can go to bars and screw around to your heart's content. Some men are just not marriage material - maybe you're one of those men?


people change over years. some better some...

Disagree.
But some fake a nice persona during "courtship",
while you had on your blinders.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2019 10:13     Subject: I understand why people cheat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife is an ice cold bitch and I am out at a bar without her after our fight

First thing that happened once I entered was that I struck up a conversation with a pretty woman who is just as impressed by my appearance as I am by hers

Not sure I would go through with all the lies and sneakiness that would be required for an ongoing affair, but I absolutely would rather kiss and have sex with this woman than my own wife

I (wisely?) declined to exchange contact info but I'm still thinking about her


Why did you marry this "ice cold bitch?" You should have stayed single so you can go to bars and screw around to your heart's content. Some men are just not marriage material - maybe you're one of those men?


people change over years. some better some...
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2019 10:07     Subject: I understand why people cheat
Anonymous wrote:Amazing how the DCUM harpies know nothing about the wife, but they are quick to cast the OP as wrong. You rock OP. Don’t let her get away with her sh*t or you’ll have to live that way for the rest of your life.


DCUM harpie here. Cheating is always wrong, no matter who does it. Maybe OP's wife is also doing something wrong, but as my mama always said to me, "two wrongs don't make a right". If OP's wife is wrong, then OP's recourse is to try and address the problem with professional help and if that doesn't work to divorce.

Cheating isn't a form of punishment administered to a woman in order to "not let her get away with her sh*t". That's abusive.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2019 09:47     Subject: I understand why people cheat
Anonymous wrote:My wife is an ice cold bitch and I am out at a bar without her after our fight

First thing that happened once I entered was that I struck up a conversation with a pretty woman who is just as impressed by my appearance as I am by hers

Not sure I would go through with all the lies and sneakiness that would be required for an ongoing affair, but I absolutely would rather kiss and have sex with this woman than my own wife

I (wisely?) declined to exchange contact info but I'm still thinking about her


Why did you marry this "ice cold bitch?" You should have stayed single so you can go to bars and screw around to your heart's content. Some men are just not marriage material - maybe you're one of those men?
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2019 09:30     Subject: I understand why people cheat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Just think out your hookup nailing you for rape,
and you go to lockup for 20 years.

Times have changed, guys.
Think about it.


That's why cell phones have discreet recording apps.

OP: married or not, never turn down free p*ssy.

Are you teaching this to your children?
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2019 09:09     Subject: I understand why people cheat
Anonymous wrote:
Just think out your hookup nailing you for rape,
and you go to lockup for 20 years.

Times have changed, guys.
Think about it.


That's why cell phones have discreet recording apps.

OP: married or not, never turn down free p*ssy.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2019 08:55     Subject: I understand why people cheat
In 20 years of marriage, I've never had a fight with my wife so bad that I was even remotely close to leaving the house. This is foreign to me.

That said, I probably would've been gratified if an attractive woman flirted with me during some of the rocky times when the kids were babies.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2019 08:50     Subject: I understand why people cheat
When I have a really bad fight with DH to the point where I leave the house I usually go to Home Depot and buy some light bulbs or something. I recommend you do the same OP!
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2019 08:50     Subject: I understand why people cheat
Anonymous wrote:Amazing how the DCUM harpies know nothing about the wife, but they are quick to cast the OP as wrong. You rock OP. Don’t let her get away with her sh*t or you’ll have to live that way for the rest of your life.


Lol at the DCUM incels thinking that leaving your infant at home and going to a bar to flirt and then posting about it on DCUM and hiding it from your wife is somehow not letting your wife get away with shit?

I have no idea what OP's wife did (he hasn't explained) but I can say that OP's behavior was not manly in the least.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2019 08:48     Subject: I understand why people cheat
Men and like a fine wine
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2019 08:47     Subject: I understand why people cheat
Anonymous wrote:Amazing how the DCUM harpies know nothing about the wife, but they are quick to cast the OP as wrong. You rock OP. Don’t let her get away with her sh*t or you’ll have to live that way for the rest of your life.


DCUM harpies are aware that cheating is wrong.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2019 08:27     Subject: I understand why people cheat
Ice cold bitch. Charming.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2019 08:25     Subject: I understand why people cheat
Anonymous wrote:
Just think out your hookup nailing you for rape,
and you go to lockup for 20 years.

Times have changed, guys.
Think about it.

Just think about....
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2019 08:24     Subject: Re:I understand why people cheat
Guarantee that OP will return to that same bar, hoping to see that woman again.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2019 08:24     Subject: I understand why people cheat

Just think out your hookup nailing you for rape,
and you go to lockup for 20 years.

Times have changed, guys.
Think about it.