Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
I've had kids in the AAP center system for years (big age gaps between 3 kids) and every year there are several kids that drop out of AAP back to the base school due to struggles.
Sure. The issue I have is the implication that the struggling kids were admitted to AAP through appeals, and that parents who appeal are setting their kids up to fail. I doubt there's any correlation between whether or not a kid was admitted in the first round or in appeals vs. whether that kid was successful in AAP.
Anonymous wrote:
I've had kids in the AAP center system for years (big age gaps between 3 kids) and every year there are several kids that drop out of AAP back to the base school due to struggles.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:But very few kids aren't successful in AAP, because AAP isn't that difficult.
I see posts saying this, but I've heard from my DC's teacher that there are children who struggle, with math or all around. I also see posts here that say that too.
It's pretty dismissive to say that no children are less than successful in AAP. It's also untrue.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:But very few kids aren't successful in AAP, because AAP isn't that difficult.
My oldest child got in AAP in the first round. He struggles in AAP because he has ADHD. Guess what, he would struggle in Gen Ed, per the neuropsych report because his struggle has to do with executive function and not intelligence. He scored a 140 on the NNAT and a 139 on the CogAT. Putting him in Gen Ed would actually make things worse for him as the worst thing you can do to an ADHD child is have them be bored.
I agree AAP is not difficult. My youngest (not middle) child is also in AAP and it's ridiculous easy and boring for her. She doesn't have ADHD. So the extent kids find AAP challenging, it may have nothing to do with the level of difficulty of AAP or that the child isn't smart enough to be there. Many kids are 2E and will struggle.
Anonymous wrote:But very few kids aren't successful in AAP, because AAP isn't that difficult.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I've also heard that 50% of appeals get in. But the number of appeals is very very low, despite what you see on this forum.
A mom whose kid got rejected from TJ said about half. Her kid still didn’t make it.
Fixing the above-I meant AAP, not TJ. She also said that in hindsight, if your child got rejected the first time and you appeal and push them in through parent effort, odds are your kid won’t be thriving there anyway and it hurts kid’s confidence level.
How does a child know he was "rejected" from something unless the parent tells him? How does the child know anything about the "appeal" or the process at all unless the parent tells him? My child has no idea.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:But very few kids aren't successful in AAP, because AAP isn't that difficult.
I see posts saying this, but I've heard from my DC's teacher that there are children who struggle, with math or all around. I also see posts here that say that too.
It's pretty dismissive to say that no children are less than successful in AAP. It's also untrue.
Anonymous wrote:But very few kids aren't successful in AAP, because AAP isn't that difficult.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I've also heard that 50% of appeals get in. But the number of appeals is very very low, despite what you see on this forum.
A mom whose kid got rejected from TJ said about half. Her kid still didn’t make it.
Fixing the above-I meant AAP, not TJ. She also said that in hindsight, if your child got rejected the first time and you appeal and push them in through parent effort, odds are your kid won’t be thriving there anyway and it hurts kid’s confidence level.
How does a child know he was "rejected" from something unless the parent tells him? How does the child know anything about the "appeal" or the process at all unless the parent tells him? My child has no idea.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I've also heard that 50% of appeals get in. But the number of appeals is very very low, despite what you see on this forum.
A mom whose kid got rejected from TJ said about half. Her kid still didn’t make it.
Fixing the above-I meant AAP, not TJ. She also said that in hindsight, if your child got rejected the first time and you appeal and push them in through parent effort, odds are your kid won’t be thriving there anyway and it hurts kid’s confidence level.