Anonymous
Post 04/03/2019 23:16     Subject: Anyone grow up in a family that was an open marriage? Or swinger situation?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Our children have no idea nor would they ever be told. We never bring anybody around our home and are with people that have zero ties to anyone in our family or friend circle. It’s something between us and is no business of our children or family or friends.


Hot. But tell me, are most of the other swingers fat or have tattoos?


Yes


No. You’ve obviously never been involved in the scene.


they stay in shape but they are older

it is not a way to sleep with 20 somethings


+1 - if you want to “swing” with hot 20 year olds, just join a sorority and sleep with your “sisters” frat bf
Anonymous
Post 04/03/2019 22:29     Subject: Anyone grow up in a family that was an open marriage? Or swinger situation?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Our children have no idea nor would they ever be told. We never bring anybody around our home and are with people that have zero ties to anyone in our family or friend circle. It’s something between us and is no business of our children or family or friends.


Hot. But tell me, are most of the other swingers fat or have tattoos?


Yes


No. You’ve obviously never been involved in the scene.


they stay in shape but they are older

it is not a way to sleep with 20 somethings
Anonymous
Post 04/03/2019 22:24     Subject: Anyone grow up in a family that was an open marriage? Or swinger situation?
Anonymous wrote:Our children have no idea nor would they ever be told. We never bring anybody around our home and are with people that have zero ties to anyone in our family or friend circle. It’s something between us and is no business of our children or family or friends.


Gross
They'll find out. They always do . . .
Anonymous
Post 04/03/2019 18:20     Subject: Anyone grow up in a family that was an open marriage? Or swinger situation?
It’s interesting but not shameful.
Anonymous
Post 04/01/2019 03:42     Subject: Anyone grow up in a family that was an open marriage? Or swinger situation?
Eww.....

Most of us as kids didn’t want to know or care (!!) what our parents did after the lights went out!!!!
Anonymous
Post 04/01/2019 00:35     Subject: Re:Anyone grow up in a family that was an open marriage? Or swinger situation?
There is a lot of this in my extended family
Anonymous
Post 03/31/2019 23:58     Subject: Anyone grow up in a family that was an open marriage? Or swinger situation?
Anonymous wrote:I know a family that has an open marriage of sorts. Parents Mom1 and Dad1 married in grad school and had 2 kids young. They decided to have an open marriage and Mom1 is dating Dad2. Mom1 and Dad2 have a 3rd child together. Original couple divorces and Mom1 and Dad2 marry. All while Dad1 and Girlfriend live in the same house. Eventually they move to a side by side duplex and all 4 adults take equal share raising the kids. 1 mom does all the cooking. Parents rotate drop off, pick up and extracurriculars. All 3 kids go on vacation together with each couple each summer. Everyone gets along.

I am often jealous of their set up because with 4 adults to manage the kids, two of whom have flexible schedules, all the adults get time for hobbies, exercise and date nights. The kids are 15-5 and all seem really happy and well adjusted.

I doubt it's as rosy as you seem to believe.
Anonymous
Post 03/31/2019 23:53     Subject: Anyone grow up in a family that was an open marriage? Or swinger situation?
I know a family that has an open marriage of sorts. Parents Mom1 and Dad1 married in grad school and had 2 kids young. They decided to have an open marriage and Mom1 is dating Dad2. Mom1 and Dad2 have a 3rd child together. Original couple divorces and Mom1 and Dad2 marry. All while Dad1 and Girlfriend live in the same house. Eventually they move to a side by side duplex and all 4 adults take equal share raising the kids. 1 mom does all the cooking. Parents rotate drop off, pick up and extracurriculars. All 3 kids go on vacation together with each couple each summer. Everyone gets along.

I am often jealous of their set up because with 4 adults to manage the kids, two of whom have flexible schedules, all the adults get time for hobbies, exercise and date nights. The kids are 15-5 and all seem really happy and well adjusted.
Anonymous
Post 03/31/2019 23:39     Subject: Anyone grow up in a family that was an open marriage? Or swinger situation?
I can’t use my imagination with this thread - I have sooo many questions.
I don’t know anyone in real life that does this so I just have to get real details in order for any of this to make sense.
Anonymous
Post 03/31/2019 23:09     Subject: Anyone grow up in a family that was an open marriage? Or swinger situation?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:“Themed” swingers?


+1

Please explain. For some reason, my mind went to musicals immediately. So I imagined people dressing up as the characters from Grease, but I could be totally off-base.

There is dressing up involved, yes. That’s all I’m going to say. Use your imaginations.
Anonymous
Post 03/31/2019 22:01     Subject: Anyone grow up in a family that was an open marriage? Or swinger situation?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Our children have no idea nor would they ever be told. We never bring anybody around our home and are with people that have zero ties to anyone in our family or friend circle. It’s something between us and is no business of our children or family or friends.


Why is it nobody’s business? It sounds like you are ashamed of your behavior and have something to hide.


I would assume it’s the same principle as me not telling everyone the kinky things we do in the bedroom or all the naughty places we like to do it. Sexual relations are nobody’s business and nobody wants to hear about it.


You don’t need to reveal details to tell people what you are doing. You are ashamed of yourself.


Telling people the details of your sex has nothing to do with whether or not you are ashamed. You don’t tell people because that’s called oversharing and it’s creepy.

I’ve had friends who overshared about their sex lives, pooping, periods, masturbating, etc. None of which they should be ashamed of, but I don’t need to know that you had diarrhea, or that you and your husband had “adult time”, or that you swing.
Anonymous
Post 03/31/2019 21:58     Subject: Anyone grow up in a family that was an open marriage? Or swinger situation?
Anonymous wrote:“Themed” swingers?


+1

Please explain. For some reason, my mind went to musicals immediately. So I imagined people dressing up as the characters from Grease, but I could be totally off-base.
Anonymous
Post 03/31/2019 21:25     Subject: Anyone grow up in a family that was an open marriage? Or swinger situation?
“Themed” swingers?
Anonymous
Post 03/31/2019 21:06     Subject: Anyone grow up in a family that was an open marriage? Or swinger situation?
Anonymous wrote:You are ashamed of yourself.


isn’t that the exact opposite of what people think who are swingers?
Anonymous
Post 03/31/2019 20:28     Subject: Anyone grow up in a family that was an open marriage? Or swinger situation?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My cousin and her husband have an open marriage. We're more like sisters than cousins, which is the only reason why she told me. No one else in our family knows. She and her husband are both very crunchy granola people. His parents are pretty well off and bought them a farm as their wedding gift because both love gardening and growing their own food. They're part of a small homeschool group of others with similar ideals and they all partner swap. Not my cup of tea, but their kids do not know. According to her, there are no romantic feelings involved; it's purely sexual.


I’m never going to be able to look at the catholic homeschool co-oo moms in the same way again.


DP. The only swinger couple that I know are devout Catholics.