Anonymous wrote:On-line and no sex til you agree to be exclusive and profiles are down. Easy peasy.

I would never agree to be exclusive with anyone before sleeping with them. (I’m a woman)

I know this is a question for women but I’m a 64 year old male and I date multiple women age 55-65. I have found that there are many attractive women who are not interested in long term relationships but do enjoy periodic male companionship. They know it’s not an exclusive relationship nor do they request it. Most are still very interested in sex which has been a pleasant surprise and at my age that protection is a must.

I am married but date other men. Online seems to the best way to meet guys interested in non-commited relationships. I am upfront with them from the beginning and they either accept it or not.

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Anonymous wrote:I often date anywhere between 3-5 guys. I don't sleep with them. I try to schedule dates on the same day so I can keep my nice blowout, or when I just get my nails done. I try to eat meals with them because you have to eat and there are only so many hours in the day. Online is good but I am also open to meeting people in my every day: coffee shops, groceries, the gym, on the subway. Good luck!

And what do the guys get out of this?

The joy of observing for an hour a nice blowout and freshly painted nails. What else the boy can dream about?

I used to occasionally date several people if I met them all at the same time and didn't know yet which one I preferred. I'm pretty monogamous by nature, though, so it wouldn't last long. I didn't have sex with any of them if I was dating multiple guys because it felt icky to me. (Kissing was definitely on the table.)

One thing I found helpful was to keep notes on the people you date - their job, where they went to school, siblings, etc. Write it all down after your dates. Otherwise you will almost definitely mix them up at some point and that can be embarrassing.

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Anonymous wrote:I often date anywhere between 3-5 guys. I don't sleep with them. I try to schedule dates on the same day so I can keep my nice blowout, or when I just get my nails done. I try to eat meals with them because you have to eat and there are only so many hours in the day. Online is good but I am also open to meeting people in my every day: coffee shops, groceries, the gym, on the subway. Good luck!

And what do the guys get out of this?

The privilege of asking her out on a date ...don’t you get it ?k

Same thing as everyone else. It's part of the dating game.

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Anonymous wrote:I often date anywhere between 3-5 guys. I don't sleep with them. I try to schedule dates on the same day so I can keep my nice blowout, or when I just get my nails done. I try to eat meals with them because you have to eat and there are only so many hours in the day. Online is good but I am also open to meeting people in my every day: coffee shops, groceries, the gym, on the subway. Good luck!

And what do the guys get out of this?

The privilege of asking her out on a date ...don’t you get it ?k