Yuck. It's like putting your hands on two baseballs.

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Anonymous wrote:For those who don’t recognize it, this is straight up Red Pill bulllshit.

+1. Wife who gets husband to pay for boob job just before leaving him is a Red Pill classic. Right up there with wife who convinces husband to get a vasectomy triggering some latent evo psych part of her brain which makes her not desire him if he's infertile, then leaving him.

Any truth that women find uncomfortable is evidently "red pill bullshit", whatever that means.

"You just can't handle my truth bombs. I'm too real for you."

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Anonymous wrote:My wife is seriously considering getting a breast augmentation after having two kids. I've told her she's beautiful and doesn't need them, but she keeps telling me how much more confident she will feel with implants. My wife is self conscious about her body post kids which has not been great for our sex life. Just curious for those of you that have implants or are married to someone with them, did the increased confidence change your sex life at all?

She's not doing it for you. She's doing it for some other dude she has the hots for. Fair warning.

Small-chested woman here. Just want to weigh in that if I ever get breast augmentation (which I probably won't, only because of the cost and judgment I would get from my family), it would be for myself and secondarily for my husband. Just because a woman gets a boob job doesn't mean she has an AP.

She might not have one... yet... but she's got her eye on one that she might like to have.

Improving the odds for a branch swing.

For those who don’t recognize it, this is straight up Red Pill bulllshit.

+1. Wife who gets husband to pay for boob job just before leaving him is a Red Pill classic. Right up there with wife who convinces husband to get a vasectomy triggering some latent evo psych part of her brain which makes her not desire him if he's infertile, then leaving him.

Any truth that women find uncomfortable is evidently "red pill bullshit", whatever that means.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife is seriously considering getting a breast augmentation after having two kids. I've told her she's beautiful and doesn't need them, but she keeps telling me how much more confident she will feel with implants. My wife is self conscious about her body post kids which has not been great for our sex life. Just curious for those of you that have implants or are married to someone with them, did the increased confidence change your sex life at all?

She's not doing it for you. She's doing it for some other dude she has the hots for. Fair warning.

Small-chested woman here. Just want to weigh in that if I ever get breast augmentation (which I probably won't, only because of the cost and judgment I would get from my family), it would be for myself and secondarily for my husband. Just because a woman gets a boob job doesn't mean she has an AP.

She might not have one... yet... but she's got her eye on one that she might like to have.

Improving the odds for a branch swing.

For those who don’t recognize it, this is straight up Red Pill bulllshit.

+1. Wife who gets husband to pay for boob job just before leaving him is a Red Pill classic. Right up there with wife who convinces husband to get a vasectomy triggering some latent evo psych part of her brain which makes her not desire him if he's infertile, then leaving him.

as soon as she regains her confidence with her new pair she will find a new husband.

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Anonymous wrote:PP here. Yeah, no. I don't even have my eye on someone, so why are you assuming this person's wife has her eye on someone?

Mmmm hmmm, so you say. Anytime a woman does something significant to improve her appearance, for no apparent reason, it is an unwise husband who does not sit up and pay attention.

This is very true. Especially one who knows that a boob job is going to get her a LOT more male attention and claims that it isn't for her H, just for her.

Just be sure to let her know that if you are paying for them, they belong to you, the same as they do now. If you ever break up, they have to come out. Let the next guy buy his own.

Anonymous wrote:The tummy can be handled with effort in many non-C section cases. I would never ask for that. I lobe my babies to death but they ruined my perkies. A lift and a small implant did wonders for me liking the way I looked and I believe it helps me want to stay fit.

"My perkies"? What the actual F.

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Anonymous wrote:PP here. Yeah, no. I don't even have my eye on someone, so why are you assuming this person's wife has her eye on someone?

Mmmm hmmm, so you say. Anytime a woman does something significant to improve her appearance, for no apparent reason, it is an unwise husband who does not sit up and pay attention.

OP provided adequate reasons. Sorry that doesn’t fit your idiotic narrative.

PP here. Exactly. You have this idiotic perception you keep pushing.

Should I assume that DH is exercising, eating healthy, and trying to drop 30 lbs. because he's getting ready to cheat on me, even though he's constantly telling me how beautiful I am and never turns down sex?

Actually, perhaps. I have a very fit body, and believed I had a wonderful marriage (with lots of sex and a DH who always told me that I was sexy and beautiful). I encouraged DH's effort to lose more than 30 lbs and drop several sizes, and helped him along by cooking healthier and introducing him to an eating regimen, as well as fitness program and consistency that completely transformed his health and body. It turns out that DH was making all those changes for his AP.

That is most likely not the case with your DH, so please do not worry. I would not want anyone to experience that kind of extreme emotional pain and betrayal.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm pregnant with my first and I am already looking into tummy lipo and a breast augmentation/reconstruction when the time and finances allow for it.

My husband is supportive and wants to have some input on the shape and size of the augmentation. But ultimately, I am doing this for myself. I want a smooth stomach and nice breasts, thankfully you can pay for that these days.

I don't know why there is such a stigma associated with plastic surgery. I really don't care what other people think I should or shouldn't do with my body.

Ew.

You might not end up needing a boob or tummy job
My boobs still look great after BFing three kids each for over a year. I have some extra skin on my stomach but it's not worth getting General Anesthesia for.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife is seriously considering getting a breast augmentation after having two kids. I've told her she's beautiful and doesn't need them, but she keeps telling me how much more confident she will feel with implants. My wife is self conscious about her body post kids which has not been great for our sex life. Just curious for those of you that have implants or are married to someone with them, did the increased confidence change your sex life at all?

She's not doing it for you. She's doing it for some other dude she has the hots for. Fair warning.

Small-chested woman here. Just want to weigh in that if I ever get breast augmentation (which I probably won't, only because of the cost and judgment I would get from my family), it would be for myself and secondarily for my husband. Just because a woman gets a boob job doesn't mean she has an AP.

She might not have one... yet... but she's got her eye on one that she might like to have.

Improving the odds for a branch swing.

For those who don’t recognize it, this is straight up Red Pill bulllshit.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm pregnant with my first and I am already looking into tummy lipo and a breast augmentation/reconstruction when the time and finances allow for it.

My husband is supportive and wants to have some input on the shape and size of the augmentation. But ultimately, I am doing this for myself. I want a smooth stomach and nice breasts, thankfully you can pay for that these days.

I don't know why there is such a stigma associated with plastic surgery. I really don't care what other people think I should or shouldn't do with my body.

Ew.

+1

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Anonymous wrote:PP here. Yeah, no. I don't even have my eye on someone, so why are you assuming this person's wife has her eye on someone?

Mmmm hmmm, so you say. Anytime a woman does something significant to improve her appearance, for no apparent reason, it is an unwise husband who does not sit up and pay attention.

OP provided adequate reasons. Sorry that doesn’t fit your idiotic narrative.

PP here. Exactly. You have this idiotic perception you keep pushing.

Should I assume that DH is exercising, eating healthy, and trying to drop 30 lbs. because he's getting ready to cheat on me, even though he's constantly telling me how beautiful I am and never turns down sex?

Yes.

"He never turns down sex" is particularly meaningless, unless the woman offering it is a complete beast or his T has dropped through the floor. Even a guy who is actually cheating is not going to turn down sex from his wife.

In our 34 years of marriage I think my DH has turned down sex at least once or twice. I still haven't forgiven him.

Seriously?

Anonymous wrote:I'm pregnant with my first and I am already looking into tummy lipo and a breast augmentation/reconstruction when the time and finances allow for it.

My husband is supportive and wants to have some input on the shape and size of the augmentation. But ultimately, I am doing this for myself. I want a smooth stomach and nice breasts, thankfully you can pay for that these days.

I don't know why there is such a stigma associated with plastic surgery. I really don't care what other people think I should or shouldn't do with my body.

Ew.

Anonymous wrote:I'm pregnant with my first and I am already looking into tummy lipo and a breast augmentation/reconstruction when the time and finances allow for it.

My husband is supportive and wants to have some input on the shape and size of the augmentation. But ultimately, I am doing this for myself. I want a smooth stomach and nice breasts, thankfully you can pay for that these days.

I don't know why there is such a stigma associated with plastic surgery. I really don't care what other people think I should or shouldn't do with my body.

It's a cosmetic surgical procedure i.e. purely for vanity, and there is a risk factor involved. Any time you get cut there is a risk of infection or other complications, sepsis, etc. If you are going under general anesthesia, there is always a risk that you just don't wake up. It happens.

If the surgeon botches things you can end up with some messed up scarring.

Surgery, even the cosmetic kind, is not something to be taken lightly.