Anonymous
Post 03/09/2019 20:12     Subject: ONS- was it what you expected?
Anonymous wrote:My one and only- I married him and it's still great.


no that's not what it means
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2019 19:16     Subject: Re:ONS- was it what you expected?
Anonymous wrote:I’ve had a few ONS, all years ago, and none were very satisfactory. They all came at times when I was feeling down and lonely and just needed physical contact. I was almost oblivious to the guys I was with and wanted nothing from them but what would pleasure me. If it pleasured them fine, but it was what I wanted that was important. What they did was great but one sided. What’s nice about a LTR and now marriage is wanting to really please my partner, not just myself. When my DH is very happy I know I will be happy.


I know this sounds disgusting but at least once in your life...while single....a really good ONS is a lifetime memory though not to be shared!
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2019 17:39     Subject: ONS- was it what you expected?
Anonymous wrote:I had one in college. I did try to and think I did please her. Never saw her again as I was on a trip to a friends house. I still think about her. Nice figure and soft skin. I hope she is doing well.


Me too. I went down and she didn’t. What the hell.
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2019 17:32     Subject: Re:ONS- was it what you expected?
I’ve had a few ONS, all years ago, and none were very satisfactory. They all came at times when I was feeling down and lonely and just needed physical contact. I was almost oblivious to the guys I was with and wanted nothing from them but what would pleasure me. If it pleasured them fine, but it was what I wanted that was important. What they did was great but one sided. What’s nice about a LTR and now marriage is wanting to really please my partner, not just myself. When my DH is very happy I know I will be happy.
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2019 00:07     Subject: ONS- was it what you expected?
I have had a number of one night stands. The satisfaction level varies depending on what it is I'm looking for at the time. I find if I am looking for a man for an emotional connection that I am always left with a hollow, empty feeling. But if I'm only seeking a physical connection and find the right man, I am very seldom disapointed or left with a feeling of regret.

Anonymous
Post 03/05/2019 02:00     Subject: ONS- was it what you expected?
i was on a role in college. Five in about six months (all those years of lifting weights was finally paying off). I loved it until one of those girls gave me wants. So it was a regret.
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2019 01:11     Subject: ONS- was it what you expected?
Some were very good, some were worth the effort and some were "how do I sneak out of here". No regrets though. Never know until you try.
Anonymous
Post 03/04/2019 23:01     Subject: ONS- was it what you expected?
Anonymous wrote:A lot of you are missing the O in your definition of ONS. It's one, as in, one time only. Not, we banged and now we've been married for ten years.


Thanks Debbie Downer.
Anonymous
Post 03/04/2019 22:39     Subject: ONS- was it what you expected?
A lot of you are missing the O in your definition of ONS. It's one, as in, one time only. Not, we banged and now we've been married for ten years.
Anonymous
Post 03/04/2019 21:25     Subject: ONS- was it what you expected?
My last ONS ended up becoming a long term “thing” for more than two years. We are still going... Our ONS consisted of him finishing 6 times in a night. For real.
Anonymous
Post 03/04/2019 20:44     Subject: ONS- was it what you expected?
Anonymous wrote:My one and only- I married him and it's still great.


Also not a ONS.
Anonymous
Post 03/04/2019 20:35     Subject: ONS- was it what you expected?
Anonymous wrote:DW in her 40s here. Had some ONS during grad school, nothing too exciting and some pretty disappointing. After being married for 10 years, found myself with a co-worker ONS. It was amazing , the best sex of my life, and now he is my AP.


That's not a ONE night stand, honey.
Anonymous
Post 03/04/2019 20:22     Subject: ONS- was it what you expected?
Anonymous wrote:I had a few. Once the guy didn’t complete. I have no idea why. Anyone?


Yep, happened to me a few times with ONS. Not used to wearing a condom, nervousness, and a little Viagra (which can delay getting off) combines for not being able to get there.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2019 18:48     Subject: Re:ONS- was it what you expected?
It depends on the person.

The more you want someone, the better the sex is ime.

The best sex can be super vanilla if it’s with the right person.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2019 18:39     Subject: ONS- was it what you expected?
My one and only- I married him and it's still great.