I have wild, intense sex with my AP 2-3 times a week. Sometimes it’s slow and sensual. Other times it’s as hard as she can take it. Regardless of the tempo it’s always love making. She knows it and so do I. OP find that connection. If you don’t have it with your husband go find it!! ??

I’ve only ever had sex. Would never want to make love if that meant tears. Full disclosure: had a guy cry once. It was over as soon as I got out of there. Just weird. Flat out weird.

Ok people. You can't on the same thread say that sexuality comes in many forms and then disparage one form of sexual expression.

I have cried happy tears after sex. But I'm a big cryer in general. It's part of my makeup for whatever reason. And I hate all Harlequin Romance and Twilight etc.

But OP- I think most women don't. And that's fine and normal.

I think you've been reading too many romance novels, or romance movies.