Anonymous
02/20/2019 14:32
Subject: If you had to start over financially after divorce...
Financially I was fine. Emotionally I’m a wreck and it’s been 11 years. No, it was not worth it...
Anonymous
02/20/2019 14:00
Subject: If you had to start over financially after divorce...
Anonymous wrote:I’ve done much better financially since I left because all that time and energy that I used to spend tiptoeing around his angry while trying to turn our marriage around singlehandedly I can now spend focused on me, including on my career.
Not being screamed at, undermined, ridiculed or made to feel crazy are the other benefits.
Well lesson learned huh?
Anonymous
02/20/2019 13:59
Subject: If you had to start over financially after divorce...
Anonymous wrote:Yes. 32 when I left my ex with a 2 year old and an infant, no savings (he was financially abusive), and a gap on my resume. I got a high limit credit card before leaving and maxed it out the first year after leaving to get on my feet. Was accepted into a rigorous graduate program and got a six figure job upon graduation. A pain? Yes. Worth it? Absolutely, 100%.
What was your degree in and job?
Congrats.
Anonymous
02/19/2019 17:17
Subject: If you had to start over financially after divorce...
Yes, yes, yes. No child support. Owe a boat load of taxes. No savings.
Couldn't be happier.
Couldn't be happier.
Anonymous
02/19/2019 13:01
Subject: If you had to start over financially after divorce...
I’ve done much better financially since I left because all that time and energy that I used to spend tiptoeing around his angry while trying to turn our marriage around singlehandedly I can now spend focused on me, including on my career.
Not being screamed at, undermined, ridiculed or made to feel crazy are the other benefits.
Not being screamed at, undermined, ridiculed or made to feel crazy are the other benefits.