Anonymous wrote:I have experienced serious betrayal from him and try to force myself to feel love for him but mostly feel numb. Everynight, I go straight to bed after tucking our kids in and force myself to go to sleep to avoid talking to him. As early as 8:30pm.

We are rarely intimate.

He doesn’t seem to miss me nor care.

One day, I will leave this hell.

It won't change if he cheated on you. I know there are some women that can forgive, but it will never be the same. It's not worth having sex with a cheater and messing up your health. Also, it sounds like he is seeing someone. I would find out, but either way make a plan to leave him. At least go see a lawyer, or find out what you would have to do to put yourself in a good position.

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Anonymous wrote:He's a selfless and gentle lover...vanilla sex

I need hotter, raw, manly, take me sex

Have you actually, you know, TOLD him this? Or is he supposed to just figure it out on his own?

heres the thing, if you have to TELL a man or instruct him on how to be an alpha/confident/manly then there is zero chance he will ever be any of those things

-NP

Disagree. Some guys are gentle because they think it’s what you want and it’s safer. If you give them the green light, tell them what you want they can get into it. Some not, but some will. It’s worth a try.

Anonymous wrote:My husband was never interested in sex. I think he's gay.

Try talking to him about it

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He's a selfless and gentle lover...vanilla sex

I need hotter, raw, manly, take me sex

Have you actually, you know, TOLD him this? Or is he supposed to just figure it out on his own?

heres the thing, if you have to TELL a man or instruct him on how to be an alpha/confident/manly then there is zero chance he will ever be any of those things

-NP