Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks, all! We’re not Russian, but my husband has central-European Jewish ancestry, so not totally unrelated. This is our third boy and there are few names we both like, Alexander is one. I assume he’ll be called by whatever nickname he eventually prefers (and I wouldn’t try to make Alexander stick with a baby or little kid — it’s long!), but we’re trying to think of a nickname to promote at least at the outset. (With the intention to avoid the immediate default to Alex, which my husband doesn’t like. Zander would be fine, but it seems to me like a nickname that really has to suit the particular person).
Sasha is a totally standard nickname for Alexander. You do not have to go to the Russian embassy to get an official sign-off for this (and just as well, too). If people think he's a girl - well, then they do. May nothing worse happen to him in his life.
Also, and completely unrelated, there was an Alexander, nickname Sasha, in my dorm in college, who was dreamy.
