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Anonymous wrote:This is definitely split along gender lines l

Yup, plenty of women eager to issue a pussy pass to some cheating ho they don't even know. Go, Team Woman! Pathetic but predictable...

Anonymous wrote:This is definitely split along gender lines l

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Anonymous wrote:You clearly don't trust her. Not a good basis for a relationship.

Her untrustworthiness is what makes the basis for the relationship unsound, not him noticing that she is untrustworthy.

Not quite. The weirdest part is him snooping her phone account and looking for evidence. Looks like she's extremely careful and worried that he can get jealous and insecure and that's why she lied. She lied because she cares.

It doesn't matter what OP decides to do. This will happen over and over again, with this woman or any other woman. He's insecure.

You realize when he looked for evidence, he found it right? He’s insecure because he looked, but when he looked he found something, that’s not being insecure, that’s being right.

She’s probably cheating on him because he’s an insecure pussy. If he were a better man, she wouldn’t have to look for new dick.

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Anonymous wrote:You clearly don't trust her. Not a good basis for a relationship.

Her untrustworthiness is what makes the basis for the relationship unsound, not him noticing that she is untrustworthy.

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Anonymous wrote:You clearly don't trust her. Not a good basis for a relationship.

Her untrustworthiness is what makes the basis for the relationship unsound, not him noticing that she is untrustworthy.

Not quite. The weirdest part is him snooping her phone account and looking for evidence. Looks like she's extremely careful and worried that he can get jealous and insecure and that's why she lied. She lied because she cares.

It doesn't matter what OP decides to do. This will happen over and over again, with this woman or any other woman. He's insecure.

You realize when he looked for evidence, he found it right? He’s insecure because he looked, but when he looked he found something, that’s not being insecure, that’s being right.

Anonymous wrote:You are controlling and paranoid. Dump her now to save her the pain of being married to or parenting with someone like you. Go to therapy.

She’s fine. Her issue is that she’s scared of you can can’t say “I was havin fun, I came home late.” I hope she goes to therapy and gets her self esteem back so she doesn’t just find another jerk like you.

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Anonymous wrote:I was traveling and asked her how her night was. She said came home earlier than expected from work event. We share a phone line and a couple of days later I was checking my data and snooped into her messaging activity and see she sent a couple of texts late at night. Turned out to be a work colleague with whom she shared a cab home late. Confront her. She deleted messages that were sent after the time she said she came home in panic after confrontation. Now I think she’s cheating. She then asks him to send her texts that were exchanged that were cordial. She said nothing happened but she forgot the time and was having a good time and panicked when I asked how the night was because she never stays out late.
This happened a couple of months ago. No shady activity since. But I just have suspicion something happened. I’ve been cheated on before and she knows that.
I’m thinking of dumping her now. Hate lies and liars

Sounds like she probably did the nasty. Question to ask yourself is why you seem to end up with women who cheat since not all women do.

Anonymous wrote:I was traveling and asked her how her night was. She said came home earlier than expected from work event. We share a phone line and a couple of days later I was checking my data and snooped into her messaging activity and see she sent a couple of texts late at night. Turned out to be a work colleague with whom she shared a cab home late. Confront her. She deleted messages that were sent after the time she said she came home in panic after confrontation. Now I think she’s cheating. She then asks him to send her texts that were exchanged that were cordial. She said nothing happened but she forgot the time and was having a good time and panicked when I asked how the night was because she never stays out late.
This happened a couple of months ago. No shady activity since. But I just have suspicion something happened. I’ve been cheated on before and she knows that.
I’m thinking of dumping her now. Hate lies and liars

Anonymous wrote:OP come back and give us an update

I’d dump her ass you can’t trust her anymore

I wouldn’t.