Anonymous wrote:Are you kidding?! I’m jealous! If anyone hates on it, they probably are too!

I dated a younger guy (24, I was 32) and was also worried I’d rob him of his youth. That’s actually what ended things, he felt I looked down on him because of his age and didn’t trust him to be an adult and make his own decisions. So stop treating him like a kid and treat him with the same respect you’d have for a 34 year old man. If you get serious and it’s clear he doesn’t want to settle down on the same timeframe you do, then end things.

I don’t know if you read thru the “when did you meet your spouse thread” but there are a ton that met their spouses in their mid 20’s. If you are worried about his maturity, I would counter that you can’t make a blanket statement. There are some guys that are ready to be in a relationship that within a few years will lead to marriage when they are in their 20’s and there are some that are not. Even though women have he biological clock working against them if they want kids, there are some women ready to be in the relationship leading to marriage in their 20’s and there are some that are not. You have to look at the individual - is this even someone you want to be in a relationship with, how is the chemistry, communication and compatibility. Both of you having similar thoughts about timelines and the type of commitment falls under compatibility.

Get your groove back, Stella. Cougar on the prowl!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was 40 I dated a 28 year old guy for about 3-4 months after my divorce. Looking back I'm sure he saw me as a MILF and I saw him as a very buffed guy with incredibly staying power. After a few months the novelty wore off but while it lasted it was quite an experience. Eventually I met someone my own age and while he doesn't have what the young guy did he's just fine.

I'm happily married (44) and really believe in monogamy but I do wonder what it would be like to have a long session with a young stud. My DH is 49 and wonderful but he doesn't have the body or the stamina of a 28 year old. Of course neither do I but a girl can dream can't she?

I'm 27....and available.

Insatiable 32 yo that lives to please. Maybe two at once will convince you

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was 40 I dated a 28 year old guy for about 3-4 months after my divorce. Looking back I'm sure he saw me as a MILF and I saw him as a very buffed guy with incredibly staying power. After a few months the novelty wore off but while it lasted it was quite an experience. Eventually I met someone my own age and while he doesn't have what the young guy did he's just fine.

I'm happily married (44) and really believe in monogamy but I do wonder what it would be like to have a long session with a young stud. My DH is 49 and wonderful but he doesn't have the body or the stamina of a 28 year old. Of course neither do I but a girl can dream can't she?

I'm 27....and available.

My only hesitation would be hanging out with his friends.

If you want to get married and have kids he's likely not for you. If not, enjoy yourself.

You’re in your prime, he should be elated.

Anonymous wrote:When I was 40 I dated a 28 year old guy for about 3-4 months after my divorce. Looking back I'm sure he saw me as a MILF and I saw him as a very buffed guy with incredibly staying power. After a few months the novelty wore off but while it lasted it was quite an experience. Eventually I met someone my own age and while he doesn't have what the young guy did he's just fine.

I'm happily married (44) and really believe in monogamy but I do wonder what it would be like to have a long session with a young stud. My DH is 49 and wonderful but he doesn't have the body or the stamina of a 28 year old. Of course neither do I but a girl can dream can't she?

When I was 40 I dated a 28 year old guy for about 3-4 months after my divorce. Looking back I'm sure he saw me as a MILF and I saw him as a very buffed guy with incredibly staying power. After a few months the novelty wore off but while it lasted it was quite an experience. Eventually I met someone my own age and while he doesn't have what the young guy did he's just fine.

He's never going to wife you up and your eggs are dying. Your the grasshopper playing violin in the autumn.

Just think Samantha on Sex in the City. Own that, you cougar!

OP, your boyfriend might grow up to be the President of France!

When I was about 27 I dated a woman 10 years older than me. She looked great and when she told me her age, I didn't believe her and made her show me her DL.

Suffice it to say... It. Was. Awesome.

It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. Bottom line — you’re uncomfortable in the relationship. I would end it based on that alone.

Best sex I ever had was with a younger guy. Even if it doesn’t pan out, enjoy it while it lasts.