Anonymous wrote:
My first wedding was a disaster. My wife's bridesmaids thought a few vodka shots would calm her nerves before the ceremony. Only they drank shots of water while my wife drank the real thing. My best man (out of town friend from high school and college) didn't know anyone, so he got drunk and decided to make it his mission to get laid at any cost. He started hitting on all of the women at the wedding, including my local friends' wives and my own bride. The caterer said they'd never had a group consume so much alcohol.
At the end of the night, my wife had a total, drunken, screaming meltdown and insisted that I take her to her parent's house instead of the hotel I had reserved for our wedding night. I slept on my MIL's couch. We're both remarried to others.

Things could have been so much worse, OP.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I felt so overwhelmed. My family are asian and they live abroad. On the morning of my wedding my mother was on the phone telling me I was making a mistake and to call it off.

My MIL looked like she was going to break down crying because she did not want her precious son marrying at all. My SIL who was a bridesmaid refused to come get dressed with us and didn't speak to me all day. My husband was more excited to party and be reunited with his friends than give me attention.

At the end of the day we got into a huge fight and he yelled at me and I cried myself to sleep.

I just don't want to relive that day again.