Anonymous
Post 10/08/2018 15:53     Subject: Re:Love DH, but feel like he's my third child.. which makes it tough to want sex
Anonymous wrote:Of course it will hurt him. Just suck it up and make the best of it. Sounds like you miss the old days of boning and feeling desired. That doesn't last forever. You're a mom and a wife now. Act like it.

Sounds like you didn’t read the OP. At all.
Anonymous
Post 10/07/2018 07:57     Subject: Re:Love DH, but feel like he's my third child.. which makes it tough to want sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you need family therapy. He's slowly dealing with his issues through therapy and now may be the time for both of you to go.


I've not been in your situation, but the above seems like the best suggestion. It's good that he's making progress in therapy, but he also needs to deal with the consequences of his behavior, including the toll it's taken on your marriage and you. I would approach his therapist separately and figure out timing and approach. Also, get your own counselor and therapist to work through your own feelings.

Good luck to you.


I agree with this except please don’t contact his therapist without him knowing. That’s a violation of his privacy and his confidential relationship with his therapist, which is is working well for him right now. It would be a shame to derail that in any way.
Anonymous
Post 10/07/2018 07:38     Subject: Love DH, but feel like he's my third child.. which makes it tough to want sex
Please show him your post and/or get a divorce.

Frankly, you should be in therapy discussing why/how you value yourself so little to be willing to put up with this.
Anonymous
Post 10/07/2018 05:44     Subject: Love DH, but feel like he's my third child.. which makes it tough to want sex
Anonymous wrote:Good God, people. OP didn't say anything about getting a divorce, but immediately gets a dozen "Divorce him!" responses.



That's because hes a huge loser. The vast majority of women could not have sex with him this man. Hes unemployed, does not do shit around the house, has a bad temper, is mentally weak, and his penis doesn't work. It is amazing she can stand to be under the same roof. Shes the man of the house. Yuck.
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2018 21:04     Subject: Love DH, but feel like he's my third child.. which makes it tough to want sex
Anonymous wrote:His job is investment management.


+1 That's self-employment that is producing a nice income.
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2018 20:04     Subject: Re:Love DH, but feel like he's my third child.. which makes it tough to want sex
Anonymous wrote:Of course it will hurt him. Just suck it up and make the best of it. Sounds like you miss the old days of boning and feeling desired. That doesn't last forever. You're a mom and a wife now. Act like it.


She can do a LOT better than this abusive, mentally-ill mooch.