Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It’s stupid and short sighted. Newness wears off any relationship. Romantic or new friend ones. What remains the the close bond and trust and some physical attraction since the person knows you like no one else. I’ve been married 6 years with one toddler. I’m not “in love” with my husband in ge butterfly sense. But I love him deeply, we have satisfying sex, sometimes exciting, we trust eatchotber and he’s the person that I want to tell everything to and want in my space next to me for everything. And when the toddler is with grandma we get a chance to reignite a little bit it’s based on how we know we felt when it was super new and unknown.
What if you want all that PLUS the giddy, butterflies, I can't keep my hands off you feeling?
Is that realistic for any long term couple?
Anonymous wrote:She’s bored and misses the excitement of dating and getting boned by random studs.
I wouldn’t be surprised if there’s a budding emotional affair with a coworker at the very least.
Anonymous wrote:You should support your sister. It takes courage for women to put themselves first in this world. She deserves to be happy. Would you rather she stay subjugated in a loveless marriage?
Anonymous wrote:You should support your sister. It takes courage for women to put themselves first in this world. She deserves to be happy. Would you rather she stay subjugated in a loveless marriage?
Anonymous wrote:It’s stupid and short sighted. Newness wears off any relationship. Romantic or new friend ones. What remains the the close bond and trust and some physical attraction since the person knows you like no one else. I’ve been married 6 years with one toddler. I’m not “in love” with my husband in ge butterfly sense. But I love him deeply, we have satisfying sex, sometimes exciting, we trust eatchotber and he’s the person that I want to tell everything to and want in my space next to me for everything. And when the toddler is with grandma we get a chance to reignite a little bit it’s based on how we know we felt when it was super new and unknown.