Anonymous
Post 08/03/2018 14:49     Subject: Fantasizing About Another Man During Sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Same here OP.. for the first time the other day, I fantasized about the guy who serviced my car while doing it with DH. I have never ever done that before. Together 15 years.


It must have had something to do with a car going up on a lift. That's OK

ha... no, I just found him sexy. I have not met many men where I actually fantasized about them. Movie stars, models... yes, real life men I've met, no. I think he might've been the first, but I think it's also because I'm older and much more comfortable with my sexuality than when I was younger.

I just saw him again today, though, and it's worn off. Not as attracted this time.
Anonymous
Post 08/03/2018 14:37     Subject: Re:Fantasizing About Another Man During Sex
wth is DH?
Anonymous
Post 08/03/2018 14:29     Subject: Fantasizing About Another Man During Sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP. I never ever started fantasizing about other people during sex or at any other time UNTIL DH and I started having rough times.

How is your relationship with your husband? Start there, because I think that is critical.
I relate to this. It’s only after we started having marital issues that I have had greatest fantasies about an old friend. It’s driving me crazy. Even worse that DH is not supportive in us sorting out our issues. It is so bad that I started checking him out on social media and I keep wishing I could meet him and sleep with him in real life. I won’t do it because I love DH but the fantasy is killing me.


Had you slept with this friend before? Why fantasize about him?
I was in a relationship with him before meeting and dating DH.


Why fantasize about him? Was he great in bed or something?
Anonymous
Post 08/03/2018 14:07     Subject: Fantasizing About Another Man During Sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP. I never ever started fantasizing about other people during sex or at any other time UNTIL DH and I started having rough times.

How is your relationship with your husband? Start there, because I think that is critical.
I relate to this. It’s only after we started having marital issues that I have had greatest fantasies about an old friend. It’s driving me crazy. Even worse that DH is not supportive in us sorting out our issues. It is so bad that I started checking him out on social media and I keep wishing I could meet him and sleep with him in real life. I won’t do it because I love DH but the fantasy is killing me.


Had you slept with this friend before? Why fantasize about him?
I was in a relationship with him before meeting and dating DH.
Anonymous
Post 08/03/2018 08:06     Subject: Fantasizing About Another Man During Sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP. I never ever started fantasizing about other people during sex or at any other time UNTIL DH and I started having rough times.

How is your relationship with your husband? Start there, because I think that is critical.
I relate to this. It’s only after we started having marital issues that I have had greatest fantasies about an old friend. It’s driving me crazy. Even worse that DH is not supportive in us sorting out our issues. It is so bad that I started checking him out on social media and I keep wishing I could meet him and sleep with him in real life. I won’t do it because I love DH but the fantasy is killing me.


Had you slept with this friend before? Why fantasize about him?
Anonymous
Post 08/03/2018 04:45     Subject: Fantasizing About Another Man During Sex
Yes, of course. I thought everyone does this in a longterm relationship.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2018 23:33     Subject: Fantasizing About Another Man During Sex
Anonymous wrote:OP. I never ever started fantasizing about other people during sex or at any other time UNTIL DH and I started having rough times.

How is your relationship with your husband? Start there, because I think that is critical.
I relate to this. It’s only after we started having marital issues that I have had greatest fantasies about an old friend. It’s driving me crazy. Even worse that DH is not supportive in us sorting out our issues. It is so bad that I started checking him out on social media and I keep wishing I could meet him and sleep with him in real life. I won’t do it because I love DH but the fantasy is killing me.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2018 21:10     Subject: Re:Fantasizing About Another Man During Sex
I sometimes fantasize about men when I’m having sex with my wife.
Just kidding!
I’m sure my wife fantasizes about other men and it only slightly bothers me.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2018 21:06     Subject: Fantasizing About Another Man During Sex
Most men look hotter with a well-groomed beard.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2018 20:23     Subject: Fantasizing About Another Man During Sex
I occasionally fantasize about other men during sex with my DH. It has nothing to do with the status of our relationship at that time and everything to do with whether or not I've encountered a sexy stranger in my daily life lately. It enhances our sex life, and it doesn't hurt our relationship at all.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2018 18:10     Subject: Re:Fantasizing About Another Man During Sex
I do it all the time and DH knows and doesn't care! We consider it normal and fun. I've never asked him to change his appearance.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2018 10:37     Subject: Fantasizing About Another Man During Sex
my wife does it. i am perfectly okay with it.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2018 10:32     Subject: Fantasizing About Another Man During Sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I totally don't get the man-beard thing. Totally yucky.


I dated a German guy who grew a beard. I never kissed a man with a beard before. Whoah! It was so hot.

I'm in my late 40s, and he's a bit younger by about 3 years. The beard made him look older, and I could feel the beard when we kissed and when he went downtown. I enjoyed it.


I grew a beard last year and DW, who was not a fan of beards, seems to have taken to it. I think she still isn't used to it so when she closes her eyes during sex it's like she's with another guy.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2018 10:29     Subject: Fantasizing About Another Man During Sex
Anonymous wrote:I totally don't get the man-beard thing. Totally yucky.


I dated a German guy who grew a beard. I never kissed a man with a beard before. Whoah! It was so hot.

I'm in my late 40s, and he's a bit younger by about 3 years. The beard made him look older, and I could feel the beard when we kissed and when he went downtown. I enjoyed it.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2018 10:28     Subject: Fantasizing About Another Man During Sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I totally don't get the man-beard thing. Totally yucky.

Have you ever had him tickling your cooch with it while he went down? OMG the best.


Not for me! I want his face as smooth as a baby's bottom when it's rubbing my cheek or upper thigh!