Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:to show my man that I regret being a moody wench for the past year (while I was dealing with major health issues and being ungrateful while balancing our kids) now that I can exhale and see just how lucky I am. Yes, frequent sex and all the extra trappings. I know that part. Got that down. I am in good shape, so we are ok there too. I am looking for other ways. What really makes you feel awesome from your wife? What do you wish she would do (other than the sex arena) that she does not do currently or often enough? Want to be a bit more creative. He deserves it.
I think just frequent sex and blow mobs would do the trick. If you’re doing that, you’re good.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:to show my man that I regret being a moody wench for the past year (while I was dealing with major health issues and being ungrateful while balancing our kids) now that I can exhale and see just how lucky I am. Yes, frequent sex and all the extra trappings. I know that part. Got that down. I am in good shape, so we are ok there too. I am looking for other ways. What really makes you feel awesome from your wife? What do you wish she would do (other than the sex arena) that she does not do currently or often enough? Want to be a bit more creative. He deserves it.
To answer this first, you need to know what his top 2 love languages are. If you aren't speaking his language he'll miss the message. I would say that you should voice those things to him several times in several ways over a couple weeks' time, but words of affirmation is my love language, so that why I would suggest that. It may not be his.
https://365tests.com/personality-tests/what-is-your-love-language/
I can in here to post this. I am a words and physical touch person and my spouse is a quality time and acts of service person. Spouse is routinely frustrated because my words of praise to them are insignificant and if I really meant it, then I would dedicate the time to the acts of service they are seeking.