A couple times from parties, but never from a bar. I'm 46.

Anonymous wrote:Never
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This sounds dangerous and dirty. Hard pass for me.

It's dangerous for sure. We would not let roommates bring them to our home in college.

Don’t worry about your game. I have been married a long time but I have slept with plenty of men....who were wildly in love with me. That doesn’t happen in an hour.

I went home with a guy that I met at a friend's wedding. Then I married him.

Anonymous wrote:Never
Woman
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This sounds dangerous and dirty. Hard pass for me.

Op here, as a guy I’m not worried about going home with an axe murderer but stds worries me. But with my zero game it was never a realistic possibility. I’m literally the guy who was in a fraternity and went to parties where everyone hooked up but me

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Anonymous wrote:Apparently I'm a ho. I did it a bunch of times in my 20's and 30's. I'm now a nearly 50yo female.

+1

We could be friends.

PP here. I never thought of it as something that unusual. Granted, I married late, so I had a good number of years as a single person. And I'm now a church-going middle aged mom with kids in Catholic school. I don't think I'm that much of an outlier.

Funny my best friend is a middle aged mom with kids in Catholic school but we were always sure she would bring someone home from the bar in out 20's.

Never. I’ve never been a risk taker - was always paranoid about STDs, getting pregnant, or getting myself into a bad or dangerous situation. Needless to say, I’ve only ever had sex with three different people (one of them is my husband) and I’m 40.

I did it a few times, but only had sex with one (who ended up crying and reading poetry afterwards - hmmm). The next time a super hot bartender went down on me, and after that I merely slept in the upper NW home of the parents of my "ONS" visiting from Brooklyn (he drove me home with me in my slinky black cocktail dress the next morning).

Looking back I guess I feel it could have been worse. I hope my kids don't do it. Too many wierdos out there.

Quite a few times in college/my early 20s! Now I’m closing in on 40 with three kids. Totally happy but also happy about having had fun in my 20s.

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Anonymous wrote:Once. Married him.

Same here! We call it the "One Night Stand that Never Ended"!

The result of bipolar women

Never
Woman
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This sounds dangerous and dirty. Hard pass for me.

Anonymous wrote:Once. Married him.

Same here! We call it the "One Night Stand that Never Ended"!

Never a total stranger. There have been people I dated/hooked up with that the first time we hooked up was going home from a bar, but I’ve known them ahead of time either through school or through a friend or something. I don’t judge you if that’s what you do, but I feel safer at least having a little recon knowledge on someone.

I remember in the 1990s clubs were popular. Imagine it was common but having no game, bad hearing and can’t dance I would not go to clubs.