Anonymous
Post 04/15/2018 17:51     Subject: What is a nice and polite way to say someone is full of shit?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your question doesn’t make sense. Nice and polite people don’t engage with people they know are full of sh. They just don’t waste their time or energy. They nod politely and disengage from the situation.

Now, condescending pompous jerks who have no manners and who might want to come off as better/smarter than others could probably question the other person on the matter with such a level of specificity on the subject that the other person is backed into a corner and looks like an idiot.



+1

Agree with the first part. Don't waste your time with ignorant people, OP. Rule number one. No faces/staring/"challenging" - faces/staring/"challenging" is for small children only. You are presumably more sophisticated than a small child. And never, ever (ever) stoop to the rude person's level. Ever.


Yes playing dumb is just so much more "sophisticated". It's unfortunate that American adults these days can't handle a civil conversation about things. We all just hide in our little bubbles with people we agree with 100%.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2018 17:49     Subject: Re:What is a nice and polite way to say someone is full of shit?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Oh, aren't you sweet!?!

Well bless your heart.

Hhhm. Interesting.

I understand. I'll have to ponder that.


Nope. Too passive aggressive and shows that you are angry, or worse.


I don't think you understand what passive aggressive means; it certainly doesn't mean that you are "angry, or worse." Also, fyi that not everything has to be a fight. Sometimes in life it is much better to grey rock or go along to get along.


I don't think you understand the point. The point is that grey rock is fine, but trying to be slick is not. Don't show that you are angry. That better? You understand now? Probably not. If you want to be difficult, then .......your life will be difficult.


Sounds like you know all about it so the best of luck with that! Bye bye!


HAHAHA - good luck to that attitude. Ta ta!
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2018 17:38     Subject: Re:What is a nice and polite way to say someone is full of shit?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Oh, aren't you sweet!?!

Well bless your heart.

Hhhm. Interesting.

I understand. I'll have to ponder that.


Nope. Too passive aggressive and shows that you are angry, or worse.


I don't think you understand what passive aggressive means; it certainly doesn't mean that you are "angry, or worse." Also, fyi that not everything has to be a fight. Sometimes in life it is much better to grey rock or go along to get along.


I don't think you understand the point. The point is that grey rock is fine, but trying to be slick is not. Don't show that you are angry. That better? You understand now? Probably not. If you want to be difficult, then .......your life will be difficult.


Sounds like you know all about it so the best of luck with that! Bye bye!
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2018 17:29     Subject: Re:What is a nice and polite way to say someone is full of shit?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Oh, aren't you sweet!?!

Well bless your heart.

Hhhm. Interesting.

I understand. I'll have to ponder that.


Nope. Too passive aggressive and shows that you are angry, or worse.


I don't think you understand what passive aggressive means; it certainly doesn't mean that you are "angry, or worse." Also, fyi that not everything has to be a fight. Sometimes in life it is much better to grey rock or go along to get along.


I don't think you understand the point. The point is that grey rock is fine, but trying to be slick is not. Don't show that you are angry. That better? You understand now? Probably not. If you want to be difficult, then .......your life will be difficult.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2018 17:26     Subject: Re:What is a nice and polite way to say someone is full of shit?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Oh, aren't you sweet!?!

Well bless your heart.

Hhhm. Interesting.

I understand. I'll have to ponder that.


Nope. Too passive aggressive and shows that you are angry, or worse.


I don't think you understand what passive aggressive means; it certainly doesn't mean that you are "angry, or worse." Also, fyi that not everything has to be a fight. Sometimes in life it is much better to grey rock or go along to get along.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2018 11:45     Subject: What is a nice and polite way to say someone is full of shit?
So what was the bs line he gave? Please give more details, OP.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2018 11:43     Subject: What is a nice and polite way to say someone is full of shit?
You're eyes are soooo brown!
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2018 11:39     Subject: What is a nice and polite way to say someone is full of shit?
Anonymous wrote:I don't think responding to bs with passive aggression makes you any any better.

Most of the PPs above are suggesting you be passive aggressive. To thebonebpp, don't teach your teen to be that way.

The best way to deal with someone who is or seems full of shit is to be honest without snark. If you can't do that because the person is your boss and you no know there'd be negative consequences, then you just ignore and move on.



+1

Absolutely this. Even if the person is "not your boss" (PP) - could be pauper or prince - ignore and move on. Your time is worth more, isn't it, OP?
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2018 11:37     Subject: Re:What is a nice and polite way to say someone is full of shit?
Anonymous wrote:Oh, aren't you sweet!?!

Well bless your heart.

Hhhm. Interesting.

I understand. I'll have to ponder that.


Nope. Too passive aggressive and shows that you are angry, or worse.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2018 11:37     Subject: What is a nice and polite way to say someone is full of shit?
Anonymous wrote:Your question doesn’t make sense. Nice and polite people don’t engage with people they know are full of sh. They just don’t waste their time or energy. They nod politely and disengage from the situation.

Now, condescending pompous jerks who have no manners and who might want to come off as better/smarter than others could probably question the other person on the matter with such a level of specificity on the subject that the other person is backed into a corner and looks like an idiot.



+1

Agree with the first part. Don't waste your time with ignorant people, OP. Rule number one. No faces/staring/"challenging" - faces/staring/"challenging" is for small children only. You are presumably more sophisticated than a small child. And never, ever (ever) stoop to the rude person's level. Ever.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2018 11:34     Subject: What is a nice and polite way to say someone is full of shit?
Anonymous wrote:Don't pee on my leg and tell me it's raining.

+1
I love this phrase
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2018 11:31     Subject: What is a nice and polite way to say someone is full of shit?
"Your words are contradicting my wisdom here, Friend."
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2018 11:30     Subject: What is a nice and polite way to say someone is full of shit?
"I'm sorry, I'm not falling for the banana in the tailpipe."

"What you say doesn't really line up with what I understand."

"Bullshit."
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2018 10:22     Subject: Re:What is a nice and polite way to say someone is full of shit?
Oh, aren't you sweet!?!

Well bless your heart.

Hhhm. Interesting.

I understand. I'll have to ponder that.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2018 10:21     Subject: What is a nice and polite way to say someone is full of shit?
Anonymous wrote:Well, bless your heart......



Yes, this. It's a southern thing but I find myself channeling my grandmother who spent summers in rural VA. She would come out with this saying sometimes and it makes me smile now that I truly understand it's meaning.