Anonymous
Post 03/10/2018 20:08     Subject: Re:Can I name DS Nathaniel with nickname Neil?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't think Neil is becoming popular with girls. I think it's just a few families. I think it's like Evan, or James, or Wesley or August. A solidly male name that a few people, for whatever reason, give to their daughters.

I think Neil is OK, and Nathaniel is fantastic, so i'd never use Neil as a nickname for Nathaniel, but I don't see any reason why you couldn't. However, I don't really follow your reasoning for not just naming him Neil.


np. This is the name I disagree with as being solely male. I think August is a name that could be boy or girl. While traditionally June has been a month for girls I don't see why boys could be named June, although in our culture it is only seen acceptable to name girls that were boy's names rather than the other way around. Mark Zuckerberg named his daughter August!

What makes "August" more masculine that James?



Augustus Caesar was very masculine!
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2018 20:00     Subject: Can I name DS Nathaniel with nickname Neil?

Does not work. Nate or Nathan as nicknames for Nathaniel work. If you like Neil (I don't) name him Neil Nathaniel or Nathaniel Neil.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2018 19:53     Subject: Can I name DS Nathaniel with nickname Neil?

I think Nate or Nat are best NNs
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2018 13:12     Subject: Re:Can I name DS Nathaniel with nickname Neil?

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks, ppl. I’m off Neil. Nate is fine. Sometimes these ideas just pop in my head.


Nate is a much nicer name than Neil. Good choice.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2018 09:25     Subject: Can I name DS Nathaniel with nickname Neil?

Go for Neil if you like it! It’s a solid name.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2018 08:42     Subject: Re:Can I name DS Nathaniel with nickname Neil?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I've never heard of any girl called/named, Neil.


DD8 has a girl named Neil in her class at school.


And I went to high school with a girl named Gregory. Just because there’s one out there doesn’t mean it’s a trend—probably a family thing.

I know a boy named Jonathan who goes by Nathan—that seems to work well.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2018 08:21     Subject: Re:Can I name DS Nathaniel with nickname Neil?

Anonymous wrote:I don't think Neil is becoming popular with girls. I think it's just a few families. I think it's like Evan, or James, or Wesley or August. A solidly male name that a few people, for whatever reason, give to their daughters.

I think Neil is OK, and Nathaniel is fantastic, so i'd never use Neil as a nickname for Nathaniel, but I don't see any reason why you couldn't. However, I don't really follow your reasoning for not just naming him Neil.


np. This is the name I disagree with as being solely male. I think August is a name that could be boy or girl. While traditionally June has been a month for girls I don't see why boys could be named June, although in our culture it is only seen acceptable to name girls that were boy's names rather than the other way around. Mark Zuckerberg named his daughter August!

What makes "August" more masculine that James?

Anonymous
Post 03/10/2018 08:17     Subject: Re:Can I name DS Nathaniel with nickname Neil?

Nathaniel, Nathan, Nate, Neil—these are all really bad names.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2018 08:12     Subject: Can I name DS Nathaniel with nickname Neil?

I've got a Nathaniel nicknamed Nate. People love to say Nate, and it's a friendly, solid-sounding name.
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2018 23:15     Subject: Can I name DS Nathaniel with nickname Neil?

I think Neil is an awesome name. If we’d had a boy, that was my #1 choice.

Didn’t anyone watch white collar? Neil Caffrey was so suave.
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2018 16:31     Subject: Can I name DS Nathaniel with nickname Neil?

Is Neal and Neil pronounced the same? I've also never met a girl named Neil.
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2018 12:39     Subject: Can I name DS Nathaniel with nickname Neil?

Good choice OP. Nate is a great nickname!
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2018 08:58     Subject: Can I name DS Nathaniel with nickname Neil?

Neil IS a formal name. It's not a nickname like Kathy. So if you name your DS Neil, that's perfectly acceptable name.

Wow, I've never heard of a girl named Neil, and I would view that as ridiculous. However, I had never heard of a girl named Taylor years ago. That was traditionally a boy's name. So if you really think there is a trend toward feminizing the name, I would not name the boy Neil.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2018 22:24     Subject: Re:Can I name DS Nathaniel with nickname Neil?

OP here. Thanks, ppl. I’m off Neil. Nate is fine. Sometimes these ideas just pop in my head.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2018 22:19     Subject: Can I name DS Nathaniel with nickname Neil?

Anonymous wrote:I personally am a little irritated by the nicknames that are totally different from the first names. My son has a friend with that situation, and it took me a while to figure out how to contact him for parties, play-dates, etc., because he was listed in the directory and class lists by his given name, which my son had never heard of. He kept insisting there was a boy named X in his class, and I was like, well, I have no idea who he is.

I imagine that people have similar problems with things like resumes, background checks, mail, airline tickets, etc. (Small similar example, which is that I know someone who uses a slightly different name for professional purposes. She had an airplane ticket bought for her for a conference by the sponsoring organization, and she wasn't able to board the plane because the ticket did not match the name on her driver's license.)

Clearly you can do whatever you want. But I think that the purpose of a name is to know what to call someone. And if you're not going to call them that, then why name them that?


Birth certificate or bust!