Anonymous wrote:Sex with a drunk woman is never good sex, no matter how freaky you think you did him. He probably is underwhelmed, and may be thinking you're the type that needs to be drunk first, before you can have sex. That said, it didn't stop him from taking advantage of the situation, but he may not be up for more. Sorry.

I don't know...my wife flies her freak flag when she's drunk and it's pretty damn good. When I see her getting lit, I stop drinking because I know it's going to be a good night.

Sex with a drunk woman is never good sex, no matter how freaky you think you did him. He probably is underwhelmed, and may be thinking you're the type that needs to be drunk first, before you can have sex. That said, it didn't stop him from taking advantage of the situation, but he may not be up for more. Sorry.

Anonymous wrote:3 pages and none of the hens of DCUM have noticed the typo in the title? Gotta be a record

Ha ha ha! Bravo should make a show with that title! It would be a hit.

If he really liked you, sex on date #3 would be nbd. He'd be over the moon. Cut your losses and move on. Sorry.

Anonymous wrote:No point in bashing the guy to make yourself feel better or to make you think you shouldn't be more careful in the future.

You did something stupid. You aren't the first person to do something stupid and you won't be the last and this likely won't be the last something stupid you do.

STD/STI testing and plan B. You'll have to test for HIV twice.

The guy is an asshole. He deserves to be bashed.

No point in bashing the guy to make yourself feel better or to make you think you shouldn't be more careful in the future.

You did something stupid. You aren't the first person to do something stupid and you won't be the last and this likely won't be the last something stupid you do.

STD/STI testing and plan B. You'll have to test for HIV twice.

Stop beating yourself up. He is an asshole. Sh!t happens. Don't spend anymore time on this.

Eff that guy. Only a jerk wouldnt have texted you back.

Anonymous wrote:If he hasn’t texted back, he’s not a gentleman and you don’t want anything more to do with him. Live and learn, get STD testing and move on. No big deal.

Agree.

If he hasn’t texted back, he’s not a gentleman and you don’t want anything more to do with him. Live and learn, get STD testing and move on. No big deal.

Not that big of a deal, OP. I AM a prude by most standards, and even I know that having a few drinks and having sex on the third date is not that unusual. at the very least, by the time I was in grad school, all my friends seemed to do this from time to time. Get regular STD testing.

But dude is being weird now if he hasn't responded after a couple of days. He's not that into you. Act accordingly.

3 pages and none of the hens of DCUM have noticed the typo in the title? Gotta be a record

Good on ya, gurl.

If he doesn't call, it's his loss.

You should never text a guy after getting so drunk that you can't even remember whether or not you used protection. He's already out with someone else who at least knows where she is.

Ugh, dating is hard. Sounds like you two had a good time and now he's being weird.

From what you say, you didn't do anything wrong - even DCUM prudes are aware that a lot of sex happens on third dates, and a lot of that sex is preceded by drinks.

I would say - if he doesn't respond quickly enough to make you feel secure, then move on. He's giving you important info about how he communicates, and you should respond accordingly.