Anonymous
02/10/2018 14:55
Subject: If a parent has always complained to you
Anonymous wrote:I have a question, is OP married? Hope she doesn't marry a deadweight like her mother did.
Sounds like her mom was the deadweight...
Anonymous
02/09/2018 15:39
Subject: Re:If a parent has always complained to you
Anonymous wrote:My mother does the same thing. I have found that I can curtail it some like this.
Mom, "You know what your dad did/said/reacted when I asked him if he. . . blah blah?"
Me, "Is it something different than he has said/done in the last 50 years you've been married? No, so don't know why you expect anything else."
NP- I have done something similar. I also said, "Then why don't you get divorced?" She didn't like that one bit.