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Anonymous wrote:Older men do. My (older) AP liked to call me every day, just to chat. Then we got busted and that was the end of that. I miss it.

You could get a new older AP. One who is single, funny, tall, well-educated, and will call you every day.

Sounds like you have somebody in mind.

When I first met my DH, he called me pretty much everyday for a quick good night. I was living in NYC at the time, so this really set him apart from the other men I was dating. I loved it. But I think it's rare and probably close to extinct.

I am all for the phone but often also end up texting. Then I know I am not interrupting anything for the other person, the person has time to think and respond when it is convenient for them. I can call if we end up in a long text conversation, or if something is shorter to just explain in direct conversation. So 90% of phone communication is texts. I assume that you do see each other fairly regularly and then talk face to face?

Anonymous wrote:Older men do. My (older) AP liked to call me every day, just to chat. Then we got busted and that was the end of that. I miss it.

You could get a new older AP. One who is single, funny, tall, well-educated, and will call you every day.

I guess I'm old fashioned. I like phone calls.

Anonymous wrote:I swear even grown-ass men rely on texting. I have a thing for a guy who loves to text me, but never calls me. And it's not just me, he won't call anyone. Seriously. WTF. Can I just get a damn phonecall?

Yes, some people still call. The guy I like texts for simple things like "wyd" or "wya" or basic replies. If he misses me, he'll call. If he wants to discuss something, he'll call. If we need to talk about something really important/personal, he invites me to meet in person. Says he's "lazy about technology." I'm so glad

common millennial dysfunction. look for a gen X man

Older men do. My (older) AP liked to call me every day, just to chat. Then we got busted and that was the end of that. I miss it.

Yes they do