My husband's friend/coworker partially single after a 17 year relationship with 3 kids (has a fiance in another country who is trying to get a visa but still plays the field here) sends my husband lingerie pics of the woman he plays with. Oh by the way he had to move back in with his ex because he couldn't afford to live on his own because he lives beyond his means. He live a steak lifestyle while he can only afford chicken drumsticks

I think it's typical for American men. Definitely not what I talk about with my friends but I am Bangladeshi. Men are pigs.

Exact same scarnario with my husband’s BFF divorced. Thank god he just got re-engaged so hopefully his new wife can reign him the f* in! I actually screen shot his texts and presented them to a friend/divorce lawyer to evaluate. They were talking so graphically about a woman they met at the bar I still don’t feel completely right about it all. She said very immature/botederline sex addict but not that shocking to her- she’s seen it all!
Would second the PP who said he’s horny. My DH’s timing was right after a particularly dry third trimester and pelvic rest/newborn phase.
Give him a huge blow job! Make your sex life a huge priority! And tell him you saw the chat just so you do t have that secret weighing on you.
Relieved to see all the posts saying this is normal!

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I'm not pissed, it just seems pretty surface-level and immature compared to what I would expect for a friend he's known for 30 years.

Can you post all you texts, posts and emails for the last year?

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I'm not pissed, it just seems pretty surface-level and immature compared to what I would expect for a friend he's known for 30 years.

His friend is a single guy. That's what single guys talk about. He's getting to an age where he can't discuss it with other single guys b/c his friends are married. Your DH is being a good friend and discussing with him these things and making him feel normal while balancing guarding the sacred bond of your marriage. Nothing to worry about so stop snooping.

Yes it's normal and you need to get a life.

Unclench, OP