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Anonymous wrote:It’s only been 10 days, lol.

We’ve had sex twice ce so far. Maybe I’ll put out tonight in honor of this thread

Me too at twice in ten days. "Oh, honey.....I have a fun idea for tonight". It's 10:10pm and I'm ready.

PP - sadly, it didn't happen.

We both worked from home yesterday. Woo hoo!

Anonymous wrote:These people who have "been together for 9 years..." There is NO comparison to the dynamic between a legally married couple that has the daily pressures of children(perhaps) and or extended family expectation bearing down on their physical intimacy. I'd like to hear from the dead bedroom married people to hear about their progress.

Huh?

*Intimacy

I don't know if I posted, but I am one of the people who didn't have a great 2017 (or 2016) sex-wise. Our first child was born right at the beginning of 2016, after an unexpectedly high risk pregnancy where I was put on pelvic rest for the entirety. It was a struggle; we still had couple time, most of it entirely one-sided in terms of who got off (which was fine, that's about all we could do). But we definitely lost some of that ibtimicy, and trying to get it back while wading through having a newborn / being firsttime parents was...slow progress. But suddenly in October / November something really clicked, and it no longer felt like we were just going through the motions. It's gotten better and better from there. I just turned 31...I am convinced the whole "dirty thirties" thing is spot-on. I can't believe how much sex is on my mind these days. We've been together for about 9 years, and sex was always good but I feel like it's just at another level now. He's gone on a 3 night trip this week and I am missing the HECK out of him in my bed currently...

Anonymous wrote:It’s only been 10 days, lol.

We’ve had sex twice ce so far. Maybe I’ll put out tonight in honor of this thread

Me too at twice in ten days. "Oh, honey.....I have a fun idea for tonight". It's 10:10pm and I'm ready.

It’s only been 10 days, lol.

We’ve had sex twice ce so far. Maybe I’ll put out tonight in honor of this thread

Anonymous wrote:I'm single, female and I did not have sex at all during 2017. This has been the longest stretch in my entire life.

I can help you with that.

OP here

good to see some positive responses in here. hope all of you keep it up and for those struggling, hope you find your groove. i dont want to see 900 sexless marriage threads in this forum this year. hopefully, you all learn from previous posts and try to get out the rut.

Actually ours has slowed... the buildup to the holidays gets us going. All those twinkle lights! We will probably rev up again around Valentine’s Day. I’ll probably kick up my workouts, do a quick tan, get a facial, and some new thongs in the mean time.

Nope she is coming off some illnesses and the meds kill all drive. The best way to describe it is a female chemical castrations.

Anonymous wrote:Uhhh. I think OP meant to hear responses from people in previously dead bedrooms in married couples since that's the most difficult structure for maintaining a sexual relationship. If you were ever recently doing it even once or twice a week, your 3X a week means your response is not relevant here.

GF/BF=/=married couple's struggle for intimacy--btdt.

If you are in a dead bedroom, do not make a 2018 resolution but rather issue a marital ultimatum. Decide how much sex you need, communicate that clearly, and set the expectation that this is a monogamous relationship dealbreaker.

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Anonymous wrote:Three times so far and I like the pace. This is our first year being empty nesters and since September it's been at least twice a week, sometimes more. If my college age kids knew what went on in the kitchen or on the family room couch they'd be grossed out.

Watch out for the surprise visits Home

That sounds like the kids' problem to me!

Anonymous wrote:Three times so far and I like the pace. This is our first year being empty nesters and since September it's been at least twice a week, sometimes more. If my college age kids knew what went on in the kitchen or on the family room couch they'd be grossed out.

And if you knew what went on on that couch when they were home with their SOs and you were out, you would be grossed out.