Anonymous wrote:We are at a highly rated elementary school. my children are average and my 9 year old feels like she's "not one of the smart kids." In hindsight, a lower rated school would have been better for us. I want my children to do their best, they don't have to be the best, and while average would horrify some of the parents in our school, we are perfectly fine with that. This is a great question OP. DH and I are conflicted about whether we should move.
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Why do you assume that a poor school rating is solely based on the students? What if the teachers are horrible?
Anonymous wrote:Interesting that Wilson HS in the district has similar Ivy admit rate to McLean HS. Not sure what to make of that.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
I agree that top flight kids will do well at either type of school....but....by definition, most kids are not "top flight". So if you have a kid who is not super motivated or talented, should you put that kid in a school where the admin might be attending more to the needier kids (behavior, economic needs, academically behind), or do you put you child in a school where the admin and students are all focussed on achieving with the hope that that influences your kid?
That's the question parents have to answer if your kid isn't super impressive heading into MS or HS.
It's a gamble whether the more competitive, driven environment will motivate vs discourage a not super motivated kid. One thing is sure:
if you are on this board having this conversation, your kid will be fine. Your kid already has parents who are motivated.
Anonymous wrote:
I agree that top flight kids will do well at either type of school....but....by definition, most kids are not "top flight". So if you have a kid who is not super motivated or talented, should you put that kid in a school where the admin might be attending more to the needier kids (behavior, economic needs, academically behind), or do you put you child in a school where the admin and students are all focussed on achieving with the hope that that influences your kid?
That's the question parents have to answer if your kid isn't super impressive heading into MS or HS.
Anonymous wrote:It’s a hard fact to swallow when we all pay so much more to cluster around a few schools. Your umc, high achieving, ambitious, competitive kid; would also be all of those things at ... Annandale, Stuart, TC, Wakefield, Lee...
They aren’t going to join a gang. They will still have the opportunity to be on debate team, or sing in choir. I always assume posters disparaging the lower rated schools, are from elsewhere and just don’t understand that NOVA isn’t Newark.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I heard it would be easier for a student with a high GPA graduating from a low rated school than it is the other way around
This can be true, but with a big caveat. The problem with being the kid with a high GPA from a lower performing school is that colleges know that students from lower performing schools are less likely to be prepared for college, even with a high GPA, so the high GPA isn't enough; you need other corroborating achievements to demonstrate a high level of college readiness. A kid with a slightly lower GPA from a more rigorous high school will have already demonstrated college readiness by their performance in the context of their school so they don't need as much corroboration; they will instead have to find other achievements as a way to stand out.
...and they will have a large cohort also competing against them. Yes, schools like Lee and Stuart have small percentages of students going to competitive schools, but it’s easier to be in that group. Any admissions officer will tell you this. Also, they are looking for geographic diversity. The over saturation of competitive students is working against you- really from any high school in nova.
If they are looking for geographic diversity, they aren't going to care if it comes from George Mason or Marshall, rather than Stuart. They probably don't care if it comes from Falls Church, either, rather than Fairfax. It's all NoVa.
It really is BS to think kids at the better schools are disadvantaged. If it were otherwise, you'd see people trying to take advantage of the system by grooming their kid to be the top kid at Lee. Does. Not. Happen.
Because people are afraid. Parents are genuinely worried about what happens at a school like Lee. Which is understandable. It’s still easier to be in the top 2% at Lee as opposed to Mclean. It’s not personal. Just Math.
You roll the dice no matter what you do with your kids. The best idea is to pay attention and make a change if needed. Most people aren’t clairvoyant. Looking back many people realize their children would have been fine almost anywhere, but it’s understandable people want assurances when kids are little. Picking a GS 8 is simple and reassuring to people.
Not sure about Lee, but the top schools for Annandale HS last year were NoVa and George Mason. For Langley, they were Virginia Tech and JMU. Langley also had 37 kids going to UVA or W&M. Annandale had 13, and only one going to W&M.
Or we can look at the Ivies + Stanford. Langley had eight kids going to those schools; Annandale had none.
So go ahead and tell me it's better to be in the top 2% at Annandale or Lee, but I'm not buying it.
Wait. You are telling me the very best school any Annandale student was admitted to was GMU?
The best schools seemed to be UVA (12), W&M (1) and Carnegie-Mellon (1).
Cool. So it’s a very small cohort, but basically confirms that a great student would excell at Annandale. Thank you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Not sure about Lee, but the top schools for Annandale HS last year were NoVa and George Mason. For Langley, they were Virginia Tech and JMU. Langley also had 37 kids going to UVA or W&M. Annandale had 13, and only one going to W&M.
Or we can look at the Ivies + Stanford. Langley had eight kids going to those schools; Annandale had none.
So go ahead and tell me it's better to be in the top 2% at Annandale or Lee, but I'm not buying it.
At least part of this comes down to bad advising and parents not knowing what the possibilities are. A student with an ambitious courseload, good ECs, good scores, and excellent grades has a very strong chance at Lee and Annandale. My kids went to a similarly ranked and similarly disparaged FFX school and were accepted to UVA and W&M, as well as excellent out of state schools. Our experience was that the counseling advice was atrocious and had they not had knowledgeable parents they would not have been encouraged to apply or understood what courseload was needed, etc.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I heard it would be easier for a student with a high GPA graduating from a low rated school than it is the other way around
This can be true, but with a big caveat. The problem with being the kid with a high GPA from a lower performing school is that colleges know that students from lower performing schools are less likely to be prepared for college, even with a high GPA, so the high GPA isn't enough; you need other corroborating achievements to demonstrate a high level of college readiness. A kid with a slightly lower GPA from a more rigorous high school will have already demonstrated college readiness by their performance in the context of their school so they don't need as much corroboration; they will instead have to find other achievements as a way to stand out.
...and they will have a large cohort also competing against them. Yes, schools like Lee and Stuart have small percentages of students going to competitive schools, but it’s easier to be in that group. Any admissions officer will tell you this. Also, they are looking for geographic diversity. The over saturation of competitive students is working against you- really from any high school in nova.
If they are looking for geographic diversity, they aren't going to care if it comes from George Mason or Marshall, rather than Stuart. They probably don't care if it comes from Falls Church, either, rather than Fairfax. It's all NoVa.
It really is BS to think kids at the better schools are disadvantaged. If it were otherwise, you'd see people trying to take advantage of the system by grooming their kid to be the top kid at Lee. Does. Not. Happen.
Because people are afraid. Parents are genuinely worried about what happens at a school like Lee. Which is understandable. It’s still easier to be in the top 2% at Lee as opposed to Mclean. It’s not personal. Just Math.
You roll the dice no matter what you do with your kids. The best idea is to pay attention and make a change if needed. Most people aren’t clairvoyant. Looking back many people realize their children would have been fine almost anywhere, but it’s understandable people want assurances when kids are little. Picking a GS 8 is simple and reassuring to people.
Not sure about Lee, but the top schools for Annandale HS last year were NoVa and George Mason. For Langley, they were Virginia Tech and JMU. Langley also had 37 kids going to UVA or W&M. Annandale had 13, and only one going to W&M.
Or we can look at the Ivies + Stanford. Langley had eight kids going to those schools; Annandale had none.
So go ahead and tell me it's better to be in the top 2% at Annandale or Lee, but I'm not buying it.
Wait. You are telling me the very best school any Annandale student was admitted to was GMU?
The best schools seemed to be UVA (12), W&M (1) and Carnegie-Mellon (1).
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I heard it would be easier for a student with a high GPA graduating from a low rated school than it is the other way around
This can be true, but with a big caveat. The problem with being the kid with a high GPA from a lower performing school is that colleges know that students from lower performing schools are less likely to be prepared for college, even with a high GPA, so the high GPA isn't enough; you need other corroborating achievements to demonstrate a high level of college readiness. A kid with a slightly lower GPA from a more rigorous high school will have already demonstrated college readiness by their performance in the context of their school so they don't need as much corroboration; they will instead have to find other achievements as a way to stand out.
...and they will have a large cohort also competing against them. Yes, schools like Lee and Stuart have small percentages of students going to competitive schools, but it’s easier to be in that group. Any admissions officer will tell you this. Also, they are looking for geographic diversity. The over saturation of competitive students is working against you- really from any high school in nova.
If they are looking for geographic diversity, they aren't going to care if it comes from George Mason or Marshall, rather than Stuart. They probably don't care if it comes from Falls Church, either, rather than Fairfax. It's all NoVa.
It really is BS to think kids at the better schools are disadvantaged. If it were otherwise, you'd see people trying to take advantage of the system by grooming their kid to be the top kid at Lee. Does. Not. Happen.
Because people are afraid. Parents are genuinely worried about what happens at a school like Lee. Which is understandable. It’s still easier to be in the top 2% at Lee as opposed to Mclean. It’s not personal. Just Math.
You roll the dice no matter what you do with your kids. The best idea is to pay attention and make a change if needed. Most people aren’t clairvoyant. Looking back many people realize their children would have been fine almost anywhere, but it’s understandable people want assurances when kids are little. Picking a GS 8 is simple and reassuring to people.
Not sure about Lee, but the top schools for Annandale HS last year were NoVa and George Mason. For Langley, they were Virginia Tech and JMU. Langley also had 37 kids going to UVA or W&M. Annandale had 13, and only one going to W&M.
Or we can look at the Ivies + Stanford. Langley had eight kids going to those schools; Annandale had none.
So go ahead and tell me it's better to be in the top 2% at Annandale or Lee, but I'm not buying it.
Wait. You are telling me the very best school any Annandale student was admitted to was GMU?