Grown men playing video games. Deal breaker

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Anonymous wrote:Marry an adult next time.

This. Your DH is pathetic.

It takes two to make a marage work. If your spouse is checked out take a look at yourself. Take there is not bing wrong with taking the first step to save your marage.

Anonymous wrote:Marry an adult next time.

This. Your DH is pathetic.

Why don’t you pick up the controller and play with him

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Anonymous wrote:The last few days DH has been going down to the basement and playing video games after we put the kids to bed, while I have been falling asleep. He comes up to bed around midnight. I am planning to drink some coffee this afternoon so I can stay up tonight. What can I do to make sure he wants to hang out with me and not the games?

Put on something sexy. Bend over in front of him in a short dress and let him know that you will let him take you anyway he wants. That’s what my wife did and it worked. Game system went on eBay the very next day. It was our first time trying anal and it was amazing. Saved our marage. We let ourselves get into a rut. Not anymore.

Cool story bro!

Anonymous wrote:The last few days DH has been going down to the basement and playing video games after we put the kids to bed, while I have been falling asleep. He comes up to bed around midnight. I am planning to drink some coffee this afternoon so I can stay up tonight. What can I do to make sure he wants to hang out with me and not the games?

Put on something sexy. Bend over in front of him in a short dress and let him know that you will let him take you anyway he wants. That’s what my wife did and it worked. Game system went on eBay the very next day. It was our first time trying anal and it was amazing. Saved our marage. We let ourselves get into a rut. Not anymore.

Since he's a computer gamer, I'd recommend buttplug.

I have to agree... Stand in front of the TV in lace panties, turn around and bend over at the hips. Shake your rear like a cat and say meow.... If he doesn’t take that hint, he’s gay.

TwistdMike wrote:Just show him a new port that he plug his joystick in, problem solved

I think he already knows about that one but chooses to play video games instead. Sucks for OP and I don't think joining him in his gaming is the solution.

TwistdMike wrote:Just show him a new port that he plug his joystick in, problem solved

Best response ever.

Just show him a new port that he plug his joystick in, problem solved

Anonymous wrote:Hey all. Thanks! I sent him some suggestive texts during the day, then brought them up again while we were putting the kids to bed. After they went to bed, he came into our bedroom, locked the door, and didn't leave until morning. And I did not fall asleep . (Well, for a while, we both need to be functional adults today.). I appreciate the suggestions.
Oh, and I did bring up getting a game like Diablo III that we can both play, and he seemed interested.

Awesome and TY for the update. Be ready for the sexting to be more and more frequent occasionally escalated by him. Also, beware as you children get older and have phones, always double check who you are sending the sext to. I learned that lesson the hard way. Luckily, mine was fairly vanilla and, given my personality, easily explainable as a joke. Don't be shocked if he tries to encourage a photo but there are plenty of sexy photos you can send that don't reveal anything and don't include you face. I would only send what you are comfortable with. Glad it worked out well.

Anonymous wrote:Marry an adult next time.

I knew it was only a matter of time before some hoity-toity wet blanket would waltz in her asserting superiority over the plebs who play video games.

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Anonymous wrote:BJ

On it's own, this isn't enough. Trust me... he gets his, and then thinks "Man, what a great night! Now I still have a couple hours to go play video games."

COMMUNICATE, OP.

Yeah but he might be too spent afterward to want to play video games.

How "spent" can one be after receiving a BJ?

Hey all. Thanks! I sent him some suggestive texts during the day, then brought them up again while we were putting the kids to bed. After they went to bed, he came into our bedroom, locked the door, and didn't leave until morning. And I did not fall asleep . (Well, for a while, we both need to be functional adults today.). I appreciate the suggestions.
Oh, and I did bring up getting a game like Diablo III that we can both play, and he seemed interested.