Anonymous
Post 10/31/2017 19:06     Subject: Re:Seen her with another guy.
Anonymous wrote:Oh please you could understand everything he wrote.


I want good grammar. I am grateful to DCUM members for correcting mine.
Anonymous
Post 10/31/2017 07:30     Subject: Seen her with another guy.
Stop spending money on this woman. She is playing you. Have some respect for yourself.
Anonymous
Post 10/31/2017 06:43     Subject: Seen her with another guy.
She’s playing out her options, you play yours. Don’t play second string quarterback to another guy...ever.

Having options makes you more attractive, plus you assumed she had the same moral fiber you do. You’ll learn with women in this area that’s not the case
Anonymous
Post 10/31/2017 02:26     Subject: Seen her with another guy.
Are you The Weknd?

Abel, it is truly over now.

You deserve much better from a woman.
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2017 17:52     Subject: Seen her with another guy.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Two things:

1. It's "saw." My friend SAW the girl with another guy. Not "seen."

2. Move on. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't want the same thing you want. End it.


Troll


Huh? How am I a troll?


Yes you are a troll and a bully. Your post has thing to do with topic. You are an asshole.


Which part of the post has nothing to do with the topic? And which part indicates PP is a bully?


The grammar lesson. She understood enough to correct him which meant that the OP got his point across. Douche move.
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2017 17:48     Subject: Re:Seen her with another guy.
Anonymous wrote:Yes, you do have to have the exclusive talk. It’s not childish to establish either that she isn’t sleeping with anyone else or dating other people while you guys are together. I had gotten burned in the past with guys that will say “well you never asked me if”, “we hadn’t agreed to” that I assume unless it has been asked and agreed to, don’t assume.

As for the get back to you, that does seems a bit rude especially since you’ve been intimate. What, is she waiting for a better offer? The only possible legit reason I could see her really liking you to date exclusively but saying she will get back to you is if she thinks you are only asking her because you saw her out and it’s not genuine. Apart from that, she knows now what she is feeling - does she not want to commit right now to anyone, does she need to know you better, or does she want to keep it casual?


+1. Considering that OP thinks have "the talk" is childish, I wonder if how he approached her about this turned her off. If he confronted her as if he had proof she was cheating or she wonders if he's only wanting exclusivity to prevent her from talking to others, I can understand not wanting to jump into exclusivity right away after that conversation.