Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP - what happened? Did you go trick or treating on your own?

Yes and it was lovely! It was DD's first time trick or treating and it was drama free.

Glad to hear it!

Anonymous wrote:OP - what happened? Did you go trick or treating on your own?

Yes and it was lovely! It was DD's first time trick or treating and it was drama free.

wtf i would be livid but my DH has the balls to end something like this if his sister was inviting HIS ex to functions. ..

OP - what happened? Did you go trick or treating on your own?

OP, it sounds like Janet moved on from trying to annoy you with Kayla's presence to moving on to annoying her newly engaged SIL (or sister? or BIL? I'm so confused) Emily. Didn't she get back together with Kayla when her BIL broke up with Kayla and got engaged to Emily?

I'd say she moved on to them and you should just ignore it.


But honestly, sounds like this has been going on for years, right? Can't you be nice to kayla? Enjoy her company and just think of her as another one of Janet's friends? how would you treat Larla if all of a sudden Janet became friends with Larla and brought her to Xmas, Halloween, etc.? Just try to treat Kayla like that since it's obvious that both your DH AND Kayla moved on from their relationship years ago.

I sent Janet a text.

"Hey we're going to do our own thing for Halloween. We don't know what time we're going to start or anything so no need to wait on us. We will try to see Nephew before."

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They all sound like fruit loops. Why does the ex want to be around? Time for a coming to Jesus discussion with these people.

Honestly at first I thought she was just lonely. I'm not a jealous person and I trust me my DH 100 percent. It wasn't until Janet came out and said that i needed to get over Kayla being family that I caught on. Janet is intentionally pushing my buttons and I'm so over it.

disengage from these people and work "NO" into your vocabulary and have your husband address his sister.

Anonymous wrote:They all sound like fruit loops. Why does the ex want to be around? Time for a coming to Jesus discussion with these people.

Honestly at first I thought she was just lonely. I'm not a jealous person and I trust me my DH 100 percent. It wasn't until Janet came out and said that i needed to get over Kayla being family that I caught on. Janet is intentionally pushing my buttons and I'm so over it.

They all sound like fruit loops. Why does the ex want to be around? Time for a coming to Jesus discussion with these people.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And Kayla is apparently trick or treating with us...

Who is going trick or treating? Tell Janet you're just taking the kids yourselves. How is this a group thing?

We've gone trick or treating as a group since nephew was born 4 years ago. This is the first year she's invited Kayla but it doesn't surprise me. I don't know what's going on with Janet but she text DH yesterday asking him to crawl in her fireplace and clean out her chimney. She's been asking him to do her bidding the past week and a half. DH still wants to go with nephew because we got DD a costume that goes with nephew. I don't want to go.

Anonymous wrote:And Kayla is apparently trick or treating with us...

OP, don't complain to us about things that you can control.

Why does Kayla want to come? I wouldn't say yes to invite to a an ex's family events. Janet and Kayla are having an tryst.

Anonymous wrote:And Kayla is apparently trick or treating with us...

Who is going trick or treating? Tell Janet you're just taking the kids yourselves. How is this a group thing?