Anonymous wrote:Women are "based on looks?"

Are you a Clinton/Weinstein love child?

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Anonymous wrote:I prefer 15 years younger, but 25 years younger can be a lot of fun.

My friend has a partner 25 years older. It was great when she was 20 and he was a hot 45 year old. She's 45 now and looks great and he is rapidly declining. He looks like her grandpa. Good times.

45 year old men are no longer hot.

Their hair is thinning and they are getting paunchy around the middle, even the fit ones.

Plus PE and ED.

It's normal for them to marry late 20 year olds

Lol, no it's not. And when they do, it's not very good-looking late twenty year olds. Those women have much better options.

All this "men age like wine, women age like milk" nonsense is ridiculous. In every 40-something couple I know, the woman looks way better than the man. Lots of men looking doughy, paunchy, balding, and just unappealing in their 40s, whereas most of the women take care of themselves and are attractive. It's such a tired cliche about young women wanting older men for their money too - most women make plenty of money on their own now, and the average Joe in his forties is not typically setting the world on fire in his career anyway.

I agree that men don't necessarily "age like wine." They don't necessarily age better than women. It's just that masculine traits tend to age better. A hard-faced, weathered man can be handsome long past his youth. If he has money and is charming, he can usually still get it. It just doesn't work the same for women. But it all evens out. Women rule the dating world when they are young. No one gets to be on top forever.

On average, men age better than women. Just an observation from a friend who attended his 50th reunion this past summer. The women universally looked awful; among the men, some looked bad, some looked their age, and quite a few looked much younger than their ages. Of course, the men were also far more successful than the women.

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Anonymous wrote:I prefer 15 years younger, but 25 years younger can be a lot of fun.

My friend has a partner 25 years older. It was great when she was 20 and he was a hot 45 year old. She's 45 now and looks great and he is rapidly declining. He looks like her grandpa. Good times.

45 year old men are no longer hot.

Their hair is thinning and they are getting paunchy around the middle, even the fit ones.

Plus PE and ED.

It's normal for them to marry late 20 year olds

Lol, no it's not. And when they do, it's not very good-looking late twenty year olds. Those women have much better options.

All this "men age like wine, women age like milk" nonsense is ridiculous. In every 40-something couple I know, the woman looks way better than the man. Lots of men looking doughy, paunchy, balding, and just unappealing in their 40s, whereas most of the women take care of themselves and are attractive. It's such a tired cliche about young women wanting older men for their money too - most women make plenty of money on their own now, and the average Joe in his forties is not typically setting the world on fire in his career anyway.

I agree that men don't necessarily "age like wine." They don't necessarily age better than women. It's just that masculine traits tend to age better. A hard-faced, weathered man can be handsome long past his youth. If he has money and is charming, he can usually still get it. It just doesn't work the same for women. But it all evens out. Women rule the dating world when they are young. No one gets to be on top forever.

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Anonymous wrote:I prefer 15 years younger, but 25 years younger can be a lot of fun.

My friend has a partner 25 years older. It was great when she was 20 and he was a hot 45 year old. She's 45 now and looks great and he is rapidly declining. He looks like her grandpa. Good times.

45 year old men are no longer hot.

Their hair is thinning and they are getting paunchy around the middle, even the fit ones.

Plus PE and ED.

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Anonymous wrote:I prefer 15 years younger, but 25 years younger can be a lot of fun.

My friend has a partner 25 years older. It was great when she was 20 and he was a hot 45 year old. She's 45 now and looks great and he is rapidly declining. He looks like her grandpa. Good times.

45 year old men are no longer hot.

Their hair is thinning and they are getting paunchy around the middle, even the fit ones.

Plus PE and ED.

It's normal for them to marry late 20 year olds

Lol, no it's not. And when they do, it's not very good-looking late twenty year olds. Those women have much better options.

All this "men age like wine, women age like milk" nonsense is ridiculous. In every 40-something couple I know, the woman looks way better than the man. Lots of men looking doughy, paunchy, balding, and just unappealing in their 40s, whereas most of the women take care of themselves and are attractive. It's such a tired cliche about young women wanting older men for their money too - most women make plenty of money on their own now, and the average Joe in his forties is not typically setting the world on fire in his career anyway.

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All this "men age like wine, women age like milk" nonsense is ridiculous. In every 40-something couple I know, the woman looks way better than the man. Lots of men looking doughy, paunchy, balding, and just unappealing in their 40s, whereas most of the women take care of themselves and are attractive. It's such a tired cliche about young women wanting older men for their money too - most women make plenty of money on their own now, and the average Joe in his forties is not typically setting the world on fire in his career anyway.

Keep dreaming. You're desperate for our money and our wallets get fatter as we age, and that's what matters.

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Anonymous wrote:I prefer 15 years younger, but 25 years younger can be a lot of fun.

My friend has a partner 25 years older. It was great when she was 20 and he was a hot 45 year old. She's 45 now and looks great and he is rapidly declining. He looks like her grandpa. Good times.

A good friend was 30 when she married a guy near 50. At 65 he looked and acted 75 and when she turned 60 he was almost immobile and died at 80. It was sad to see someone still in her prime living such a difficult life. I think once you get past a ten year gap you are taking a gap risk unless the older person has great genes.

My DH's parents both played tennis and traveled internationally until they were 85 and both lived until their early/mid 90's.

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All this "men age like wine, women age like milk" nonsense is ridiculous. In every 40-something couple I know, the woman looks way better than the man. Lots of men looking doughy, paunchy, balding, and just unappealing in their 40s, whereas most of the women take care of themselves and are attractive. It's such a tired cliche about young women wanting older men for their money too - most women make plenty of money on their own now, and the average Joe in his forties is not typically setting the world on fire in his career anyway.

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Anonymous wrote:I prefer 15 years younger, but 25 years younger can be a lot of fun.

My friend has a partner 25 years older. It was great when she was 20 and he was a hot 45 year old. She's 45 now and looks great and he is rapidly declining. He looks like her grandpa. Good times.

45 year old men are no longer hot.

Their hair is thinning and they are getting paunchy around the middle, even the fit ones.

Plus PE and ED.

It's normal for them to marry late 20 year olds

Anonymous wrote:Women are "based on looks?"

Are you a Trump/Weinstein love child?

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Anonymous wrote:[flash]

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Anonymous wrote:I prefer 15 years younger, but 25 years younger can be a lot of fun.

My friend has a partner 25 years older. It was great when she was 20 and he was a hot 45 year old. She's 45 now and looks great and he is rapidly declining. He looks like her grandpa. Good times.

45 year old men are no longer hot.

Their hair is thinning and they are getting paunchy around the middle, even the fit ones.

Plus PE and ED.

It's normal for them to marry late 20 year olds

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Anonymous wrote:[flash]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I prefer 15 years younger, but 25 years younger can be a lot of fun.

My friend has a partner 25 years older. It was great when she was 20 and he was a hot 45 year old. She's 45 now and looks great and he is rapidly declining. He looks like her grandpa. Good times.

45 year old men are no longer hot.

Their hair is thinning and they are getting paunchy around the middle, even the fit ones.

Plus PE and ED.

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Anonymous wrote:I prefer 15 years younger, but 25 years younger can be a lot of fun.

My friend has a partner 25 years older. It was great when she was 20 and he was a hot 45 year old. She's 45 now and looks great and he is rapidly declining. He looks like her grandpa. Good times.

45 year old men are no longer hot.

Their hair is thinning and they are getting paunchy around the middle, even the fit ones.

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Anonymous wrote:I prefer 15 years younger, but 25 years younger can be a lot of fun.

My friend has a partner 25 years older. It was great when she was 20 and he was a hot 45 year old. She's 45 now and looks great and he is rapidly declining. He looks like her grandpa. Good times.

He didn't stray