I'm 34. My sister is 33 and my brother is 28. I talk to each of them about every other week on Facetime so they can talk to my kid. Most weeks we text a couple things here and there as well, sometimes one-on-one and sometimes as a group text with the three of us. My relationships with them are the best they've ever been, we just all live far apart, scattered across the country. I see them about twice a year.