Anonymous wrote:McLean CCL is green, CCL2 is white

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Anonymous wrote:I am sure this post was started by the goofy guy in my neighborhood that told me his U9 son is going to be a professional player.

Neither of the parents can chew gum or walk at the same time.

They need their glory somewhere.

Even the former professional players I know do not say that about their young kids. In fact, they are the most unassuming and realistic.

If your kid is on a path to be a great sportsman, the very worse thing you can do for them is tell them how WONDERFUL and better than everyone they are. The best players are the ones that never think they are good enough. They are always seeking to improve. It doesn't matter what great results they accomplish in a game. They tend to focus on the one thing they didn't do right.

The prima donna kids I see running around have no reason to have that ego.

you have never played professional sports.

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Anonymous wrote:This much emotional investment when your kid is 9...going to be a tough road ahead for you, and even more so for your poor kid. Seriously, it's bad enough to care about this stuff in your OWN club. If you care about the team rankings in other clubs, you need a new hobby.

"Is that Bethesda's B team or D team?" is a legitimate question. Particularly when you have a coach who tends to get your team in a bracket that's either too high or too low for its current ability level.

Also, on a pragmatic level, this sort of information-sharing helps us shut down the trash-talking idiots who come here and say Club X can't be that good because his DS's team just beat their team.

Agree. It's also just generally useful to get to know what the local soccer scene looks like so you can make informed decisions about your child's path as you go along. Same reason it's good to talk to parents of other teams at games and tournaments. The more connected you feel, the more likely you are to want to put in the time needed to support your kid. Plus it makes it more fun. I feel really sorry for people like the PP who smugly assume that their narrow view is the only right one.

No need to feel sorry for me. I don't feel sorry for those of you who spend your free time figuring out the color rankings of other teams in your league, but I do think, after years of experience, that you're all a little crazy. If your heart is going to get broken when your gold/silver/blue/brown kid is moved down a level, or give him a hard time when he loses to the wrong-level team, or try to gear him up with a lot of extra sleep and some extra agility training in the backyard because ohmigod he's playing a higher level team this week, then you're WAY overly invested in your child's hobby, and everyone around you, including your kid's coach, sees it. Your own kid will point it out to you when he's 12 if you don't freak him/her out too much and scare her from bringing it up. Happened to me as a child (my mom was NUTS about the sport she had me playing, sounding just like many of you), and I won't let it happen to my own kids.

My boys have played at all levels of travel soccer in a big club here. They've moved up and down. They're good players and they love soccer, but neither is the next Messi, nor is anyone they've ever played with or against. They're a bunch of nice kids spending their free time playing a great sport, which is better than spending their free time playing Call of Duty. That's it!

I love these tired posts in soccer threads. This is almost the Godwin's law of soccer discussion threads. No matter what simple question about soccer there is it always ends up with some bore making a comment like "I feel sorry for these parents who think they have the next Messi or Alex Morgan".

Jesus all somebody did was ask what the order clubs use to designate their A, B, C etc teams and you think that means they are freaking out or believe their kid is Messi. Your post is about as original as butter on toast.

As is this thread, which is one of the crazier helicopter soccer parent topics on this forum. Crazy parents busily ranking other people's kids and screaming on the sidelines. The coaches can't stand any of you, and everyone feels sorry for your kids, but at least you all find some company here. The Bethesda-whatever-color U12 team couldn't beat a pickup team of Uruguayan 6-year-olds, but hey, at least it keeps you busy.

Someone asked about colors, nobody discussed rankings. You’re the only person who brought it up. It was a pretty innocent question that managed to warp into crazy topic.

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Anonymous wrote:This much emotional investment when your kid is 9...going to be a tough road ahead for you, and even more so for your poor kid. Seriously, it's bad enough to care about this stuff in your OWN club. If you care about the team rankings in other clubs, you need a new hobby.

"Is that Bethesda's B team or D team?" is a legitimate question. Particularly when you have a coach who tends to get your team in a bracket that's either too high or too low for its current ability level.

Also, on a pragmatic level, this sort of information-sharing helps us shut down the trash-talking idiots who come here and say Club X can't be that good because his DS's team just beat their team.

Agree. It's also just generally useful to get to know what the local soccer scene looks like so you can make informed decisions about your child's path as you go along. Same reason it's good to talk to parents of other teams at games and tournaments. The more connected you feel, the more likely you are to want to put in the time needed to support your kid. Plus it makes it more fun. I feel really sorry for people like the PP who smugly assume that their narrow view is the only right one.

No need to feel sorry for me. I don't feel sorry for those of you who spend your free time figuring out the color rankings of other teams in your league, but I do think, after years of experience, that you're all a little crazy. If your heart is going to get broken when your gold/silver/blue/brown kid is moved down a level, or give him a hard time when he loses to the wrong-level team, or try to gear him up with a lot of extra sleep and some extra agility training in the backyard because ohmigod he's playing a higher level team this week, then you're WAY overly invested in your child's hobby, and everyone around you, including your kid's coach, sees it. Your own kid will point it out to you when he's 12 if you don't freak him/her out too much and scare her from bringing it up. Happened to me as a child (my mom was NUTS about the sport she had me playing, sounding just like many of you), and I won't let it happen to my own kids.

My boys have played at all levels of travel soccer in a big club here. They've moved up and down. They're good players and they love soccer, but neither is the next Messi, nor is anyone they've ever played with or against. They're a bunch of nice kids spending their free time playing a great sport, which is better than spending their free time playing Call of Duty. That's it!

I love these tired posts in soccer threads. This is almost the Godwin's law of soccer discussion threads. No matter what simple question about soccer there is it always ends up with some bore making a comment like "I feel sorry for these parents who think they have the next Messi or Alex Morgan".

Jesus all somebody did was ask what the order clubs use to designate their A, B, C etc teams and you think that means they are freaking out or believe their kid is Messi. Your post is about as original as butter on toast.

As is this thread, which is one of the crazier helicopter soccer parent topics on this forum. Crazy parents busily ranking other people's kids and screaming on the sidelines. The coaches can't stand any of you, and everyone feels sorry for your kids, but at least you all find some company here. The Bethesda-whatever-color U12 team couldn't beat a pickup team of Uruguayan 6-year-olds, but hey, at least it keeps you busy.

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Anonymous wrote:I am sure this post was started by the goofy guy in my neighborhood that told me his U9 son is going to be a professional player.

Neither of the parents can chew gum or walk at the same time.

They need their glory somewhere.

Even the former professional players I know do not say that about their young kids. In fact, they are the most unassuming and realistic.

If your kid is on a path to be a great sportsman, the very worse thing you can do for them is tell them how WONDERFUL and better than everyone they are. The best players are the ones that never think they are good enough. They are always seeking to improve. It doesn't matter what great results they accomplish in a game. They tend to focus on the one thing they didn't do right.

The prima donna kids I see running around have no reason to have that ego.

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Anonymous wrote:This much emotional investment when your kid is 9...going to be a tough road ahead for you, and even more so for your poor kid. Seriously, it's bad enough to care about this stuff in your OWN club. If you care about the team rankings in other clubs, you need a new hobby.

You have to love all the psychoanalysis on this board.

Anonymous wrote:People are idiots.
What's wrong with wanting to know what the different team levels are? How is curiosity suddenly a sign that you're a horrible helicopter parent that excepts your kid to be a pro?

Lighten up people.

Anonymous wrote:People are idiots.
What's wrong with wanting to know what the different team levels are? How is curiosity suddenly a sign that you're a horrible helicopter parent that excepts your kid to be a pro?

Lighten up people.