Here's the other thing, you can date someone who is A+ all around and then one day you're dating an addict. I posted earlier that I dated someone who was hooked on fentanyl at one point in his life. That point wasn't until he was in his early 40's, after a terrible car accident that broke multiple bones in his back. Until that point in life, he never had any issues, social drinker, responsible dad, held down a demanding and great job.

So, I guess all of you with your perfect lives and perfect choices will just head on out the door when it happens to your loved ones.

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Anonymous wrote:I bet you all are not nearly so judgmental when little larlo or larla is declared an undateable leper for having suffered from, battled and over come the disease of addiction. No grandkids for you since you raised pariahs!

Oh, it's the " I hope you never..." poster in disguise!

No. Just someone who is disgusted by you.

What will you tell your friends? "No. Larla isn't dating anyone. She's undateable! Cocaine habit ten years ago . . ."

I think you are projecting. You are disgusted with yourself. Are you a current or former cokehead?

If my (future) children were to dabble in drugs, I'd sure as fu@& notice something was up long before cocaine could be an issue.

Anonymous wrote:I bet you all are not nearly so judgmental when little larlo or larla is declared an undateable leper for having suffered from, battled and over come the disease of addiction. No grandkids for you since you raised pariahs!

There is a pretty big difference between the parent/child relationship and the person/not-yet-significant-other relationship.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I bet you all are not nearly so judgmental when little larlo or larla is declared an undateable leper for having suffered from, battled and over come the disease of addiction. No grandkids for you since you raised pariahs!

Oh, it's the " I hope you never..." poster in disguise!

No. Just someone who is disgusted by you.

What will you tell your friends? "No. Larla isn't dating anyone. She's undateable! Cocaine habit ten years ago . . ."

Here's the thing - my children aren't addicts, I don't associate with addicts and I tolerate drug use in my relationships. If you do and you sat by while yours spiraled, I feel bad for you.

Shrews like you create more addicts than Johnny Dopedealer.

Your kids are primed for addiction. Thanks, Shrewy Mom!

And you sound like an addict. Get some help.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I bet you all are not nearly so judgmental when little larlo or larla is declared an undateable leper for having suffered from, battled and over come the disease of addiction. No grandkids for you since you raised pariahs!

Oh, it's the " I hope you never..." poster in disguise!

No. Just someone who is disgusted by you.

What will you tell your friends? "No. Larla isn't dating anyone. She's undateable! Cocaine habit ten years ago . . ."

Here's the thing - my children aren't addicts, I don't associate with addicts and I DON'T tolerate drug use in my relationships. If you do and you sat by while yours spiraled, I feel bad for you.

You can say that again.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I bet you all are not nearly so judgmental when little larlo or larla is declared an undateable leper for having suffered from, battled and over come the disease of addiction. No grandkids for you since you raised pariahs!

Oh, it's the " I hope you never..." poster in disguise!

No. Just someone who is disgusted by you.

What will you tell your friends? "No. Larla isn't dating anyone. She's undateable! Cocaine habit ten years ago . . ."

Here's the thing - my children aren't addicts, I don't associate with addicts and I tolerate drug use in my relationships. If you do and you sat by while yours spiraled, I feel bad for you.

Shrews like you create more addicts than Johnny Dopedealer.

Your kids are primed for addiction. Thanks, Shrewy Mom!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I bet you all are not nearly so judgmental when little larlo or larla is declared an undateable leper for having suffered from, battled and over come the disease of addiction. No grandkids for you since you raised pariahs!

Oh, it's the " I hope you never..." poster in disguise!

No. Just someone who is disgusted by you.

What will you tell your friends? "No. Larla isn't dating anyone. She's undateable! Cocaine habit ten years ago . . ."

Here's the thing - my children aren't addicts, I don't associate with addicts and I DON'T tolerate drug use in my relationships. If you do and you sat by while yours spiraled, I feel bad for you.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I bet you all are not nearly so judgmental when little larlo or larla is declared an undateable leper for having suffered from, battled and over come the disease of addiction. No grandkids for you since you raised pariahs!

Oh, it's the " I hope you never..." poster in disguise!

No. Just someone who is disgusted by you.

What will you tell your friends? "No. Larla isn't dating anyone. She's undateable! Cocaine habit ten years ago . . ."

Here's the thing - my children aren't addicts, I don't associate with addicts and I tolerate drug use in my relationships. If you do and you sat by while yours spiraled, I feel bad for you.

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Anonymous wrote:I bet you all are not nearly so judgmental when little larlo or larla is declared an undateable leper for having suffered from, battled and over come the disease of addiction. No grandkids for you since you raised pariahs!

Oh, it's the " I hope you never..." poster in disguise!

No. Just someone who is disgusted by you.

What will you tell your friends? "No. Larla isn't dating anyone. She's undateable! Cocaine habit ten years ago . . ."

Whether they are an addict or alcoholic there is always a risk of relapse. As someone that has lived on the other side after 10 years sober they relapsed. But, that didn't shock since the attitude during that 10 years was that it was situational so I expected they would try again. Took a long time for them to admit and get sober again.

Anonymous wrote:I bet you all are not nearly so judgmental when little larlo or larla is declared an undateable leper for having suffered from, battled and over come the disease of addiction. No grandkids for you since you raised pariahs!

Oh, it's the " I hope you never..." poster in disguise!

I bet you all are not nearly so judgmental when little larlo or larla is declared an undateable leper for having suffered from, battled and over come the disease of addiction. No grandkids for you since you raised pariahs!

Anonymous wrote:If we were like 80 and met in a nursing home, sure. In our thirties, nah.

+1

If we were like 80 and met in a nursing home, sure. In our thirties, nah.

Anonymous wrote:No.

The mental issues of the addictive personality are still there and will not go away.

+1. I would be too worried that he'd find something else to be addicted to, which can be a problem even if it's not drugs or alcohol (i.e., food, sex).