I'd like to ask whether there a way your MIL can plan the shower and perhaps you can or she can call your mom to involve her in a part of the planning/cost? Since both would like to be part of it since they are both interested. While you are not close with your mom but she's not out of your life, perhaps it's a good option to at least involve her since she lives at a distance. My situation was that my mother and sister didn't care to be part of it at all so my MIL did all of it. It's nice your mom wants to be involved, no? Prayers to find the right solution for all.

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Anonymous wrote:Pp, why are you trying to make jump on OPs post and make this thread about you? You're completely taking away OPs thread for your issue. Most of the posts are about you. Start a new thread to discuss your problem. It's selfish and rude.

If you can read, you will see that pp apologized for detailing the thread. Also, there have been far more people responding to pp than to Op.

Yes because she took over the thread. Hence my previous post.

You're just being messy. You don't even respond to Op. You took the time to add yet another post addressing pp. Now that's rude.