OP I agree with you. Met hubby in college, got married and had baby by 25. All of our friends that met in college are stil married.

Honestly guys are not going to school as much as they were in the late 80s, women are outpacing men as far as education so it makes dating harder for this generation. My daughters feel your pain

Anonymous wrote:Some of you women are so damn delusional. As if no parent deserves a small break at some point. "Oh no! Dad's at HH one time with friends, what a deadbeat loser!"

You are omitting pertinent facts provided by OP. OP stated that the dad is a parent of a newborn. This parent of less than 30 days cannot stay out of a bar for happy hour? And OP wants a man like this?

Anonymous wrote:When my grandfather was 25 he'd already fought for almost 4 years in World War 2, and then gotten an engineering degree. He'd been married since 19, had three children, and was buying a house.

My grandmother too. He used to beat her up.

Anonymous wrote:Some of you women are so damn delusional. As if no parent deserves a small break at some point. "Oh no! Dad's at HH one time with friends, what a deadbeat loser!"

jealous

Some of you women are so damn delusional. As if no parent deserves a small break at some point. "Oh no! Dad's at HH one time with friends, what a deadbeat loser!"

Anonymous wrote:LOL at "wealth advisor" being lucrative or impressive. Those are the guys who peddle insurance policies and mutual funds to law firm associates.

And they make a lot of money doing it. The sales people who sell legal copying services make more money vs most lawyers and work less hours.

LOL at "wealth advisor" being lucrative or impressive. Those are the guys who peddle insurance policies and mutual funds to law firm associates.

It is easy to meet a guy at 25 but will it last? I was happy at 25 to travel and do exciting things. Once you settle down with the husband, house and kids you can NEVER get that time back.

I'm glad I did not rush things.

LMAO

Anonymous wrote:He has a baby at home and hanging out with you!?! Um, yeah...he's a player.

Not just a baby, a newborn!

Anonymous wrote:Wealth advisor? He's one step up from a used car salesman. Vanguard and roboadvisors will put him out of a job in 10 years or less.

This.

it's a worse job than "equities in Dallas"!

Points for those that get the reference e

You have no idea who he really is in their marriage. He,could be a dud, could be amazing. Unless your friend tells you, you don't know.

Nah, the best I've found were in the 40+ range.

He has a baby at home and hanging out with you!?! Um, yeah...he's a player.

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Anonymous wrote:I wish I could be so impressed easily.

+1 who the hell are you hanging around with that holding a conversation and eye contact at 25 is shocking?

LOL I was wondering how confidence of a 32 yo is different from confidence of a 33 yo.

It's just the shining mediocrity of youth, before reality bitch-slaps him a few times.

THIS!