Anonymous
Post 08/26/2017 08:50     Subject: Husband wants to go out last minute
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't think I'm mad that he's going out. It's just this friend is so sleazy and he doesn't even like him. He talks shit about him a lot. I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks soon. I thought he would rather spend time with me because I am leaving. He mentioned his friend was coming to visit a few days ago. I didn't know it was this loser. He also emptied the wine and took the car! I've got nothing and I don't watch TV usually. I'll try to find something to watch.


Word of advice, stop trying to pick your husband's friends. He will resent you for this one day, just stop. You either trust your husband or your don't, that is the real problem here, not his friend.


News flash. Your husband likes this guy and they obviously have fun together. The reason he bashes said friend is to placate you. "You are right , DW he is a lame and gross for dragging me to strip clubs. Can't stand him for it."
Anonymous
Post 08/26/2017 08:48     Subject: Husband wants to go out last minute
Anonymous wrote:OP, you just don't like his friend. This has nothing to do with not planning.


+1
Anonymous
Post 08/26/2017 08:47     Subject: Husband wants to go out last minute
Anonymous wrote:My wife would love that. Stuck on the couch with me and then I get a call...and leave. She'd be in TV heaven.


My wife too.

Actually. I like when she goes out solo too. Sports and porn night.

Yes, op is overreacting
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2017 16:29     Subject: Re:Husband wants to go out last minute
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I dislike planning, it's so annoying, I lose all the interest. I go out on a short notice 90% of the time.


Good for you but I bet you don't have kids. It totally different when you need to figure out childcare.


I do have kids.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2017 15:56     Subject: Husband wants to go out last minute
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If only there were things a woman could do to divert a man from his plan to leave the house... but what could they be?


I can't do that in front of my toddler. We already have a very active sex life.


Go in bedroom. Lock door for 5 minutes. BJ. Done.


Yeah whatever. I don't need to give him BJ's to make him stay at home. He doesn't even give me any ever. I hate when people suggest BJ's make everything better.
My husband is not worried about BJs or sex because we do it all the time.

Anonymous
Post 08/25/2017 15:51     Subject: Re:Husband wants to go out last minute
Anonymous wrote:I dislike planning, it's so annoying, I lose all the interest. I go out on a short notice 90% of the time.


Good for you but I bet you don't have kids. It totally different when you need to figure out childcare.