Anonymous wrote:My DH and I are on vacation with our children, their spouses and little grandchildren, all in one big house. My DH and I still have a very active sex life for 'oldies' 1-2x per week. We've been here four nights and last night my DH was definitely showing interest but I was not enthusiastic given the full house. He said he was darn sure our kids knew that we still had sex and that the GC's were so young that we weren't going to harm their psyches. He didn't convince me. When we leave Saturday I'm heading away for a week to visit my mother and my DH said 'do you really want to go over two weeks without sex'? I don't want to go for the full two weeks but right now I'm feeling more like a grandmother than a wife. What would you do?

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Anonymous wrote:You people never heard of shower sex ? It's hard to believe you aren't alone for 5 minutes.

I have a husband that's over sexed. I do not do the deed with people in my house. I tell him to use the cherry blossom body wash and handle his business.

Doesn't that burn??!

No, that's the jalapeño blossom body wash.

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Anonymous wrote:You people never heard of shower sex ? It's hard to believe you aren't alone for 5 minutes.

I have a husband that's over sexed. I do not do the deed with people in my house. I tell him to use the cherry blossom body wash and handle his business.

Doesn't that burn??!

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Anonymous wrote:Question OP - is the bed on a carpeted floor? Beach houses often have wooden floors which can create a lot of noise. My DH's parents had a beach house and we slept in a bedroom, right above the master, which had twin beds and a wooden floor. We actually conceived two of our children in that situation. Silent but fruitful. We still joke about it but our kids were shocked when they got old enough to figure it out.

Huh?

How did they figure it out, unless you spent months at that house?

Summer house has been in the family something like 50 years. We always visit at the 4th of July. Kids both born around April 1. Do the math!

Unless you spend a month there... math does not explain it.

Both children were born approx nine months after the 4th of July. While it's possible they weren't conceived the week we were there it's part of family lore!

Obviously it is lore ... lore you created, not lore your kids crested.

It's not cute .. it's creepy.

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Anonymous wrote:Question OP - is the bed on a carpeted floor? Beach houses often have wooden floors which can create a lot of noise. My DH's parents had a beach house and we slept in a bedroom, right above the master, which had twin beds and a wooden floor. We actually conceived two of our children in that situation. Silent but fruitful. We still joke about it but our kids were shocked when they got old enough to figure it out.

Huh?

How did they figure it out, unless you spent months at that house?

Summer house has been in the family something like 50 years. We always visit at the 4th of July. Kids both born around April 1. Do the math!

Unless you spend a month there... math does not explain it.

Both children were born approx nine months after the 4th of July. While it's possible they weren't conceived the week we were there it's part of family lore!

Anonymous wrote:OMG - most of the women on this site would die and go to heaven for their husbands to show sexual interest in them any time or any place. I'm one of them. If my DH showed interest in that situation I'd do my best to participate. Yes, it might take some imagination to avoid a 'family trauma' but it would be worth it.

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Anonymous wrote:A house full of people is a libido killer imo. I wouldn't worry about it too much either way.

Is it? I personally find it kind of exciting, to be honest. I would be mortified if they heard me, but trying to keep it quiet would be a turn on for sure.

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Anonymous wrote:OMG - most of the women on this site would die and go to heaven for their husbands to show sexual interest in them any time or any place. I'm one of them. If my DH showed interest in that situation I'd do my best to participate. Yes, it might take some imagination to avoid a 'family trauma' but it would be worth it.

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Anonymous wrote:Question OP - is the bed on a carpeted floor? Beach houses often have wooden floors which can create a lot of noise. My DH's parents had a beach house and we slept in a bedroom, right above the master, which had twin beds and a wooden floor. We actually conceived two of our children in that situation. Silent but fruitful. We still joke about it but our kids were shocked when they got old enough to figure it out.

Huh?

How did they figure it out, unless you spent months at that house?

Summer house has been in the family something like 50 years. We always visit at the 4th of July. Kids both born around April 1. Do the math!

Unless you spend a month there... math does not explain it.

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Anonymous wrote:Tell the kids you are going on a day trip and get a room if your H is going to torture you with emotional abuse and give him some sympathy sex... sound fun. NOT.

No I would not do it in the house with a bunch of people. You are empty nesters, this is literally never an issue any more except maybe 2-4 times a year.

You H is an a$$hat.

This.

A DH is trying to have sex with his a wife....what is wrong with that?

I agree! I'm only 37 and it's nice to hear about a grandfather who still wants to have sex with a grandmother. Yeah, I get the full house issue but the guys on vacation and that usually or hopefully increases a guys libido. At least it does with my DH.

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Anonymous wrote:Question OP - is the bed on a carpeted floor? Beach houses often have wooden floors which can create a lot of noise. My DH's parents had a beach house and we slept in a bedroom, right above the master, which had twin beds and a wooden floor. We actually conceived two of our children in that situation. Silent but fruitful. We still joke about it but our kids were shocked when they got old enough to figure it out.

Huh?

How did they figure it out, unless you spent months at that house?

Summer house has been in the family something like 50 years. We always visit at the 4th of July. Kids both born around April 1. Do the math!