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Anonymous wrote:Not sure you can make it work, nor would be enjoyable for your kid. If it's a "passion" that takes this much time and it's not STEM I would recommend TJ. If it's STEM can you try to look at what TJ has to offer. If it's a sport - what's the end game? A scholarship for academics or sports? Plus what about an injury shutting your kid down vs. an academic boost. You know your kid best, but IMO no way missing school consistently will work at TJ.
Why does sports participation need to have an "end game"? My kid played a sport every season at TJ (and was involved in a year round sport outside of TJ) and his school teams regularly left school early for games/meets. His TJ sports teammates were some of the most successful kids at TJ and are at top level schools now, some still playing their sport.
Some kids are fully capable of handling a very busy schedule of both academic and non-academic activities. I think the kids who do sports are particularly good at this because the physical activity is healthy and helps to clear their heads so that they are more efficient when they sit down to study.
What was my kid's end game for his heavy sports schedule at TJ? He was physically fit and healthy and he made a lot of great friends during his time at TJ with whom he is still in touch now that they are all in college. Don't underestimate how important good friendships are to those four years at TJ.
Sure-- lots of kids play TJ sports. And some sports occasionally have to leave the school slightly early. Most fall sports compete at 6 or 7. Cross country is the outlier, and starts at 5. But in Fairfax County. Kids do not need get out of class before 3:30, and no more than once a week-- about half the time they only miss 8th period.
PP seems to be talking about a kid whose practice schedule for a non-TJ sport, drama, music, etc conflicts with the regular school day. And that will not fly. It's hard to believe that anyone would think missing all or most of the same class on a regular basis would fly. Or that a kid could take 6 classes instead of 7, given all the extra TJ diploma requirements. You can't do TJ on less than a full school day, and you can't cut out early on a regular basis. Way too much in class work, in class group projects, homeowrk quizzes given daily hands on Design Tech labs and science labs, etc. A kid who is looking to regularly skip out on a full school day for a non-TJ activity will never make it work. And if mom is already worried about IBET, we all know that even a bad IBET is better than a sophomore load, and way better than a junior load.
A kid at TJ needs to put school first and show up for class regularly. If their sport or whatever else is more important than TJ, then they need to go to the base school where this can be accommodated.
But althletes who do 2 a day work outs, and attend school 5-6 hours in between? Not doable with a TJ workload and a TJ diploma.