Anonymous
Post 08/11/2017 08:47     Subject: s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
Anonymous wrote:Deal maker: frequent sex
Deal breaker: overweight

Everything else is negotiable.


This should be on bumper stickers, taught in schools. This should be a banner on the dating site page that every woman sees when she logs in.
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2017 08:43     Subject: s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
Anonymous wrote:Deal maker: frequent sex
Deal breaker: overweight

Everything else is negotiable.


Really? Racist would be negotiable. Drug addict would be negotiable? Violent toward her children and partner is negotiable? But God forbid she wear a size 14.
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2017 08:43     Subject: s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
Anonymous wrote:I find it hilarious that on the one hand y'all don't want judgmental women, but on the other hand, "no fat chicks". Thanks for the lols.


It's not judgmental to prefer someone to whom you are actually physically attracted.
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2017 08:42     Subject: s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
Anonymous wrote:So in summary, most guys want a good earner who is sexy, slim, hot in bed, undemanding. (see drama free, not materialistic, quiet)

Right. Dream on guys.


You've got it backwards. That's what women want. Funny how it apparently seems unrealistic to you when you mistakenly assume that's what men want.
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2017 08:37     Subject: s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
My first wife cheated multiple times and so my deal makers/breakers were influenced by that relationship.

Makers:
Had to share my enthusiasm for lifelong fitness.
Had to be faithful.
Had to be a kind person
Funny and fun to hang out with
Positive

Breakers:
Fat
Any kind of substance abuse

I think my wants were pretty simple. I found a woman who's so much more than all of these and we've been together happily for 16 years.


Anonymous
Post 08/11/2017 08:21     Subject: Re:s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
Anonymous wrote:Dealbreaker: "me, me, me, I, I, I." Sadly so common ...


I don't read it that way. Men tend to need more sexual intimacy and women more emotional intimacy so the deal makers and deal breakers reflect that. There are many characteristics in these posts that are similar to the womens as well...people are just ignoring them to focus on the physical / sexual ones.
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2017 07:58     Subject: s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
Maker:
Sense of Humor
Intelligence
Education
Understands infield fly rule
Wants kids

Breaker:
Believes in astrology
Religious
Conservative
Substance Abuse
Lying
Excessive spending

Can not have the same genetic defects I have -- too much risk to offspring. That include BRCA1, Familial High Cholesterol.
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2017 07:33     Subject: Re:s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
Dealbreaker: "me, me, me, I, I, I." Sadly so common ...
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2017 07:26     Subject: s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
Deal makers:

Gets naked every once in a while
Independent
Likes to travel
Fit
Enjoys a good cocktail
Witty

Deal Breakers:

Creates drama
Disrespectful to others
Hates my music (doesn't need to like it, just tolerate it)
Has any issue with the fact that my kids are the center of my universe
Doesn't like my dog
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2017 05:43     Subject: s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
Deal maker: frequent sex
Deal breaker: overweight

Everything else is negotiable.
Anonymous
Post 08/11/2017 00:06     Subject: s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
Maker:

Smart/educated
Confident
Independant
Good relationship with her Father
Likes guns, owns her own guns


Breaker:

Drinker/Drugs
Immature
Shallow
Not outdoorsy
Doesn't want family
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2017 23:18     Subject: s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So in summary, most guys want a good earner who is sexy, slim, hot in bed, undemanding. (see drama free, not materialistic, quiet)

Right. Dream on guys.


Um, that is me. For real.


Just to add to my last comment, I would never advertise this to anyone. The man would have to find this out after spending quality time with me.


OK cool girl.


This must be a post by a woman. I am not trying to be cool. I am just being myself. Think what you want.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2017 23:17     Subject: s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So in summary, most guys want a good earner who is sexy, slim, hot in bed, undemanding. (see drama free, not materialistic, quiet)

Right. Dream on guys.


Um, that is me. For real.


Just to add to my last comment, I would never advertise this to anyone. The man would have to find this out after spending quality time with me.


OK cool girl.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2017 23:15     Subject: s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
Anonymous wrote:So in summary, most guys want a good earner who is sexy, slim, hot in bed, undemanding. (see drama free, not materialistic, quiet)

Your summary is bullshit.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2017 23:10     Subject: s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So in summary, most guys want a good earner who is sexy, slim, hot in bed, undemanding. (see drama free, not materialistic, quiet)

Right. Dream on guys.


Um, that is me. For real.


Just to add to my last comment, I would never advertise this to anyone. The man would have to find this out after spending quality time with me.