Anonymous wrote:Let me guess - you are White?
Anonymous wrote:Let me guess - you are White?
Anonymous wrote:I can't believe people are so cruel to OP. Why couldn't the Mom and sister communicate "hey, this cat isn't working for us any more, please come and get it and take it to a boarding place.....". Seems way simpler than disappearing it and not telling her.
I have a crazy family too, OP, and they would totally do this to me.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, I'm truly sorry about your cat, but aren't there some lessons to be learned here? Don't move to an apartment that doesn't accept pets when you value your cat. Don't move to a "short term" apartment for five months. Get your life together. Really.
Lesson: Don't trust your family. They are psychos.
Anonymous wrote:Yeah, it's hard to believe the sister could be that cruel.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If someone surrenders a pet to a shelter and the shelter subsequently puts the pet down, do they notify the person who surrendered the animal? How does that go? Do you get a postcard in the mail telling you, "Hey remember that animal you tried to rehome? We just gassed it."
In DC they don't. They just ask a couple of question about the nature of the animal and determine based on the age and the temperament the likelihood of the animal being re-homed. If the animal has issues, it's killed pretty quickly.
That was my understanding of what typically happened, which is why I'm wondering how it is OP's mom was able to tell OP that the cat was dead instead of rehomed. And further, it makes "my sister killed me cat" excessively dramatic, even if the rest of OP's story is true.
If you call the shelter, they will tell you how long death row wait is depending on how full they are. Some times it's 24 hours. Adult cats are not 'popular' for adoption unless they are special in appearance. People want kittens.
Anonymous wrote:OP, I'm truly sorry about your cat, but aren't there some lessons to be learned here? Don't move to an apartment that doesn't accept pets when you value your cat. Don't move to a "short term" apartment for five months. Get your life together. Really.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If someone surrenders a pet to a shelter and the shelter subsequently puts the pet down, do they notify the person who surrendered the animal? How does that go? Do you get a postcard in the mail telling you, "Hey remember that animal you tried to rehome? We just gassed it."
In DC they don't. They just ask a couple of question about the nature of the animal and determine based on the age and the temperament the likelihood of the animal being re-homed. If the animal has issues, it's killed pretty quickly.
That was my understanding of what typically happened, which is why I'm wondering how it is OP's mom was able to tell OP that the cat was dead instead of rehomed. And further, it makes "my sister killed me cat" excessively dramatic, even if the rest of OP's story is true.