Op here. It actually popped up when I typed in his name. Most arrest records and public. I went to the website and I seen them. I know it's him based on his name, number, birthday, and state he lives

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like he has alcohol abuse issues. He needs to clean up first. I would encourage him to seek help, and tell him to call you when he's in a better place. I think people just starting AA often wait a bit before dating so they can work on themselves.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

aakAnonymous wrote:NP here - I am dating a woman for almost 3 months and met online. I looked her up and saw a DUI on casesearch 10 years ago, but she hasn't mentioned it and I didn't bring it up. I also have a record (misdemeanor and traffic, no felony charges) and brought it up in general, but she didn't ask about it in detail. Why would you not give the guy the benefit of the doubt, like I am with my gf? Everyone makes mistakes and its not for us to judge that person.

Op here. One of my ex boyfriends had a DUI from when he was 18. I am fine with that because it was a past mistake that he committed when he was young. What is concerning about this current guy is his repeated offenses. He is 36 and has at least 5 offenses. I am a two years away from getting my PharmD and can't be around someone with multiple DUI and drug offenses.

Wait, what? Why are you even entertaining this? NO.

ddintysons wrote:Hi.

How do you find this information (e.g., criminal records, etc.) on-line?

I cannot even find a website that will tell me who owns a phone number when a random call appears on my cell. I have been getting a number of calls lately (e.g., this is the IRS, you owe us millions, call now) and would love to know how I can find out who the number belongs to before I call back.

I realize this is not as important as an answer to the OP and I thank anyone who can tell me how they were able to obtain this type of info on-line.

Anonymous wrote:

aakAnonymous wrote:NP here - I am dating a woman for almost 3 months and met online. I looked her up and saw a DUI on casesearch 10 years ago, but she hasn't mentioned it and I didn't bring it up. I also have a record (misdemeanor and traffic, no felony charges) and brought it up in general, but she didn't ask about it in detail. Why would you not give the guy the benefit of the doubt, like I am with my gf? Everyone makes mistakes and its not for us to judge that person.

Op here. One of my ex boyfriends had a DUI from when he was 18. I am fine with that because it was a past mistake that he committed when he was young. What is concerning about this current guy is his repeated offenses. He is 36 and has at least 5 offenses. I am a two years away from getting my PharmD and can't be around someone with multiple DUI and drug offenses.

ddintysons wrote:Hi.

How do you find this information (e.g., criminal records, etc.) on-line?

I cannot even find a website that will tell me who owns a phone number when a random call appears on my cell. I have been getting a number of calls lately (e.g., this is the IRS, you owe us millions, call now) and would love to know how I can find out who the number belongs to before I call back.

I realize this is not as important as an answer to the OP and I thank anyone who can tell me how they were able to obtain this type of info on-line.

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Anonymous wrote:If they were in the VERY distant past and didn't involve drugs, just alcohol, I'd probably consider it. I actually work in a law enforcement field but I understand (and know) many people who have managed to successfully conquer their demons. Nobody is perfect and if he has his life together and is a successful, contributing member of society now, I don't necessarily think he should be punished for the rest of his life. I certainly wouldn't want everyone in my life holding my past sins against me forever, although nothing I've done is criminal in nature, people do grow and change. Every situation is different.

I'm certain I'm in the minority and a lot of the upper class, snobby, "I'm so perfect" DCUM crowd that lives in a bubble will flame me and disagree.

Op here. He told me this morning he got arrested but not why yet. His other offenses I was able to see appear to be in 2008, 2006, 2004, and 2003. There is up to 5 more records I can't view.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If they were in the VERY distant past and didn't involve drugs, just alcohol, I'd probably consider it. I actually work in a law enforcement field but I understand (and know) many people who have managed to successfully conquer their demons. Nobody is perfect and if he has his life together and is a successful, contributing member of society now, I don't necessarily think he should be punished for the rest of his life. I certainly wouldn't want everyone in my life holding my past sins against me forever, although nothing I've done is criminal in nature, people do grow and change. Every situation is different.

I'm certain I'm in the minority and a lot of the upper class, snobby, "I'm so perfect" DCUM crowd that lives in a bubble will flame me and disagree.

I don't disagree with you, but the OP says he was just arrested *yesterday* and one of his other offenses is drug possession, so nothing you wrote is relevant.