Yes, I have one or two very close girlfriends with whom I discuss sex. But the majority of my friends? No.

Same here. Best friends. I talk to them about everything so it would be odd if for some reason I "exempted" sex.

And BTW, I would be fine if DH was the same (though I think tops there would only be one friend that he would ever raise the subject with). And actually, if they are also "friends of the marriage," I thinking far from detrimental to a marriage, having a sounding board can only be helpful...

I know this thread didn't ask the guys but it seems like a fun topic. I don't since I'm married. It seems like it would be a breach of her trust and she's literally my best freind on the planet. We have a mutual female freind though that tells me about every new guy she dates (including the sex if I ask). Sometimes those stories are fun to hear. You don't reaize how many guys are duds out there until a female is willing to share her war stories. Lol.

Anonymous wrote:Hell yes. I'm very sexual and my close friends are, too. I love talking about sex!

UM. Being very sexual does't mean you have to talk about sex. I'm very sexual, but I'm not very chatty. One doesn't necessarily follow the other.

Anonymous wrote:So, when single and dating, what do women talk about specifically?

How big the guy is. What he likes. If I had multiples with him.

Yes, I have one or two very close girlfriends with whom I discuss sex. But the majority of my friends? No.

Only with one or two of my really closest friends with the right sense of humor/disposition.

Never. No woman I know does.

Hell yes. I'm very sexual and my close friends are, too. I love talking about sex!

I never did as a single. I had a limited circle of good female friends and the sex talk just -- wasn't.

As a married adult I have a bigger circle of female friends, and I find it lovely. But, no sex talk, really, at least not in specifics. One friend and I have talked about a few things (her lack of desire for her husband, for example) but not about the actual act or his penis or anything.

Anonymous wrote:We used to while we were all single and dating, or even in serious relationships. It completely stopped after marriage. The only time a friend has brought up sex since our group of friends all got married was in confidence - concerns around her DH not initiating, and she was seeking therapy to deal. We no longer discuss our sex lives in a funny, explicit, or cavalier manner the way we used to.

Same. I miss the openness.

AFAIK, DW does not talk about it with anyone. ANYONE. He libido is gone.

The most I will do is make a joke about lack of sex. Something like, "My wife was mad at me so she decided to withhold sex.....she broke my wrists."

Anonymous wrote:I share my escapades with my AP with my BF.

hot!

Only with my best friend but it's more of a lack of sex that we talk about. Can't wait for a divorce is to come through so we can see some new wang after 23 years.

Yes.

And they all share every single detail to me.

Sometimes too much detail.

Yes