Anonymous
02/07/2018 14:41
Subject: Shared custody of an infant-coparents on good terms
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You need to talk to an expert. Most believe there needs to be a primary caregiver for an infant with no longterm overnights when that young.
The father can "bond" during daytime care, but you cannot both be primary caregivers. There is one and the infant needs to feel secure and not wrenched away midweek each week.
Talk to a developmental ped.
You are not being dev. appropriate.
A baby that young needs to be with the mother especially if still nursing.
Not sure at all. Nursing is an excuse to keep fathers away. Mom can pump or baby can have formula. Both parents need to bond. You absolutely can have two primary caregivers. What do you think happens in a two parent home? So, one parent should go away so only one parent can bond? That is absurd. If bonding is an issue child should not have multiple caregivers with day care and only parents should rotate and care for the child.
Did you even read the whole thread?
Anonymous
02/05/2018 11:27
Subject: Shared custody of an infant-coparents on good terms
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You need to talk to an expert. Most believe there needs to be a primary caregiver for an infant with no longterm overnights when that young.
The father can "bond" during daytime care, but you cannot both be primary caregivers. There is one and the infant needs to feel secure and not wrenched away midweek each week.
Talk to a developmental ped.
You are not being dev. appropriate.
A baby that young needs to be with the mother especially if still nursing.
Not sure at all. Nursing is an excuse to keep fathers away. Mom can pump or baby can have formula. Both parents need to bond. You absolutely can have two primary caregivers. What do you think happens in a two parent home? So, one parent should go away so only one parent can bond? That is absurd. If bonding is an issue child should not have multiple caregivers with day care and only parents should rotate and care for the child.
Anonymous
02/05/2018 08:47
Subject: Shared custody of an infant-coparents on good terms
Anonymous wrote:He is doing his part and should have 50/50.
Did you even read through the whole thread?
Anonymous
02/02/2018 15:25
Subject: Shared custody of an infant-coparents on good terms
Anonymous wrote:You need to talk to an expert. Most believe there needs to be a primary caregiver for an infant with no longterm overnights when that young.
The father can "bond" during daytime care, but you cannot both be primary caregivers. There is one and the infant needs to feel secure and not wrenched away midweek each week.
Talk to a developmental ped.
You are not being dev. appropriate.
A baby that young needs to be with the mother especially if still nursing.
Anonymous
02/02/2018 12:01
Subject: Re:Shared custody of an infant-coparents on good terms
Anonymous wrote:OP of this thread here. I wanted to bump this because someone recently posted something similar and the advice in here might be helpful.
An update on my end....we ended up reconciling and are now living together.
Congratulations, OP! That's probably the easiest resolution to the custody arrangement question. Hopefully this relationship continues to work well for both of you in the years to come.
Anonymous
02/02/2018 11:14
Subject: Shared custody of an infant-coparents on good terms
He is doing his part and should have 50/50.